The first step in mentally prepare "task" to actually go out and meet women is to think of the absolute worst that can happen. The absolute worst thing that can happen is she says something like "get lost loser". Now the chances that she says this is very slim. If she is not interested, she will be more likely to say something like: "I have a boyfriend" or she'll just try to ignore you and turn around to talk to their friends.
So - now that you have a clear vision of the worst that could happen, say to yourself: "If it happens, I can do it. I can walk away with my pride intact. I know that if she disses me, there is no problem with her, not me. She's probably some rule about not meeting guys in bars or she really has a girlfriend, or she just came out of a bad relationship, and is not in the mood to meet someone - but no matter, "I am a man and I can handle all she will say to me! "
Just before you approach a woman you must have some thought that she would reject you out of your mind. Tell yourself that you are the best that will happen with this girl all day. Literally say to yourself: "I am an attractive, should be fantastic guy, and this girl will be honored to meet me.
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