We all know that communication is key to a healthy relationship. What few men could not have is the importance of telephone calls. How often call a bride? When call a girl? How do you often return call girl?
Phone - a miracle of modern age, that allows communication over long distances. Although this wonderful tool has been one of the most important assets of the man in the history of humanity, has also been the source of some of the dilemmas of the man and many a headache, especially relating to girls. This dilemma is only compounded by the arrival of services answering, call monitoring and other similar devices.
Know when and how often call is something every boy should know if you want to master the art of telecommunications with the alleged sex. All in all, this knowledge can really make or break a relationship, even before it has really begun.
Call for the first time
So you know the girl of his dreams in a night club. Somehow generate the courage to talk with her and BAM!, instant connection. Interesting conversation, then occurs. She really laugh at your jokes, and wonder of wonders, she gives your phone number.
Does therefore accomplished the mission, right? Wrong. Son sorry, but this battle just it has just begun. The first call is often the most complex and causes men propagandists more problems. Basically this screwed may mean cuts in the wings of a beautiful relationship possibly before it has an opportunity to take flight.
Time is everything
Be sure to not jump the gun. It is important for the first call time correctly for maximum effect. Call too soon to ask a girl out may give the impression of being too eager. About three days is an extended period of waiting. "Hey" "Who is this new"? Waiting too long can be just as bad. Nothing is worse than be forgotten. It is important to not wait more than a week to avoid a potentially embarrassing conversation.
So now you finally have a girlfriend. You have been dating for a while. Telecommunications is still an important part of the relationship.
Here are some things to remember:
First and foremost when he says that it is going to call it, call. Do not call when it is waiting for one can cause to contemplate their intentions. This can lead to the bride to think you're not really in it. She could even start looking for other parts of some tender loving care.
Avoid calls at work. Occasionally when you have a valid reason is okay, but also that much can distract it.
Schedule your call after hours of work. Even if you have nothing to do throughout the day, it is not necessary to know that. It is imperative to give the impression of life agitated and occupied. It is obviously better even if you really have one. It's best to call in the middle of the week, if you are going to ask you out for the weekend. This will allow lots of time to prepare for the possible meeting.
After leaving a message, all that's left now is wait for a return call. Days later, it might be possible that it does not ask again? No, it is not possible. The message must have gone astray, right? Therefore, the message was left to someone, if a relatively good opportunity so that she did not receive. So feel free to call after one day. If you leave some kind of answering service, most likely is that she received and simply does not want to call back.
If you leave a message, you may want to wait a day to call to not appear in each call of and beck. Exceptions are applied when the message is somewhere in the lines of "help, my house is on fire!"
If you find geographically separated for a time, you don't have to necessarily bombard you with phone calls. Just make sure that the calls you make are significant. Even you could send a personalized gift or card only to remind you of you.
Usually cannot be called to your girlfriend too often unless it is of course find reasons to cut the conversation short. This is a sign that she is showing traces of asphyxiation. Three times a day just to say howdy is a bit much.
As with the other things in life, when it comes to call his girlfriend, is the quality and not quantity that matters more. And above all, don't forget to call when you say that you.
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