Tuesday, June 28, 2011

I'm Distraught Over My Cougar!


Hi Lucia,

I'm 25 and dating a woman who is 44.   Someone joked about our age gap and ever since then, she's been very distant. She doesn't talk to me everyday or stay with me like she used too.   I've been very distraught over this and I’ll admit I've cried a few times because I feel she has no idea how much I love and care about her. Tony

Hi Tony,

I’m so sorry to hear you’re so upset.  She’s probably feeling embarrassed and ashamed, even though she’s not doing anything wrong.  Unfortunately, not everyone has a thick skin.

I would suggest you let her know you’d like to see her, even if it’s only in private.  I don’t see why she’d have an issue with that, unless there’s something else going on. 

I would also suggest you email her the link to my blog, so that she can see there are a lot of Cougar/Cub couples in the world who are not concerned about what other people think!  Good luck.

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