Sunday, December 30, 2012

Do You Know What Women Really Want

Are you wondering what's going on in the mind of a woman and how to get in touch with her? Understand women can be difficult sometimes, but if you know what women want from their men, it is much easier to understand them and love them. The lives of men in a completely different world and the world of women often appear as mysterious and confusing. Sometimes women mad men who are clueless about what to do. To be successful in a relationship with women, men should know what women want from their men. Men want to succeed in love and living with a woman and it is easier to achieve these goals if he understands women.

Honestly speaking, no body can give an answer to this quiz. Every woman has different personalities, goals, desires and mood. Some generalizations can be made which may help men know what women want.

Quiz your romantic style-I think the priority for any relationship with a woman at the beginning is romance. Without becoming romantic, you can't win a beautiful and intelligent woman. You don't need to be a great poet of love poems, but surely you can write little love notes and send them with flowers once in a while. Show her that you love her. Say I love you in different ways. Send chocolates, small pieces of gifts and things that look cute. Let her stay in love with those cute gifts you give. She will love you more.

Your attitude Quiz-What is your attitude towards your woman/Are treated as a person without a brain? Then better review the basics. Not taken from equals? Then it is all right. Are you together when you meet your friends? Otherwise, please go together to meet friends. Treat her as a friend and as a romantic partner and a lady. This is the combination that will be his gain.

Quiz your relationship-how's your relationship? You're feeding with proper communication, care and love? Want to show your concern for your woman? Does he ask you or act on your own guessing its requirements? You said how valuable it is for you? You don't understand what he's talking about? Please note that women speak a little differently than men. Do you understand the difference? Generally when a woman speaks, she is doing auto-speak aloud. Please understand that.

Thursday, November 29, 2012

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Monday, November 19, 2012

Make Your Relationship Magically Romantic

According to statistics, everywhere around the world divorce rates have increased. People is frequently separated due to lack of understanding. Regardless of whether it's a file. Arranged marriage or love, nobody gives the relationship a second chance before the division up to the compatibility between couples is not limited to physical appearance only for pleasure.

A person who is good in bed don't have to be good in other terms. Therefore, when you are planning to go beyond a relationship or if you're already in a relationship, take measures to make it romantic and spicy perennial ever again. Try taking some romantic questions that you can ask your partner during the period of courtship or even after marriage. Modern busy people who are not creative enough to entertain and excite your partner are resorting to romantic questions for couples.

When you know you've found the perfect woman for you, make sure that she feels the same
about you. You are crazy for her and wants to do you feel happy with you, is that they are
willing to make every sacrifice to impress her, to show you how much that cares about her, or to do not allow to enter routine in your relationship.

With all these sacrifices to show you his feelings, to keep their relationship as cool as It was at the beginning, you feel that you have that do something more interesting. Is why It must lead to "magic" in your relationship even If you are inveterate romantic or not. To add more
intimacy, love, understanding and compassion in any relationship, is always welcome.

Thus, here are some magical things to do to to impress your partner in a good way and increase your relationship:

1. Surprise she taking his lunch and coffee in bed just after waking up, and if you did not This soon that will definitely be impressed; also Cook a pizza for her and cut it in one
the heart shape is very romantic, a woman is A man who is capable of cooking I always find interesting for her, no matter what type of food which is, even If it wouldn't be too tasty, she will appreciate you have attempted to

2. Place a picnic in the Park, although it is a generally the day, prepare everything you need  for a day of field, go to look for his girlfriend and go for a walk, do not tell him that from  the beginning what you plan to, and much It would be a surprise, "output" to a field day in fresh air is always welcome and relaxing

3. Send your flowers anytime and anywhere, i.e. unforeseen; women love flowers, so the  shipping of your flowers without any reason will demonstrate its you are really interested and make her feel Dear and special, the more likely that We will reply you with the same love that show your

4. Fill your apartment with balloons or something She likes, maybe is a crazy idea, but It usually works to impress the girls, but that it will be like something fun for your partner and remember a little fun is necessary in any relationship

5. If you are good at writing, writing a poem, or create a book with a special dedication, which no doubt will work if love poems; do not begin to write a poem only if you know you are good in that, other than as ruin

6. Reading romantic poetry in the middle of the Lounge in a blanket of soft candle light, It is a very good way to offer your partner a wonderful night, women tend to be more romantic than men, for this reason, who like to be surprised by men with romantic ideas

7. Massages are always magic when it is done well; purchase of various edible bars flavored to experiment one another may be more surprising; But if you're not good doing massage, go to a spa together and get a massage in couple together

8. Go for a meal romantic, make reservations in a beautiful restaurant and create a romantic atmosphere with candles, roses and slow music; offer you a night never to forget

9. Going a walk at night and look at the stars and the Moon is almost romantic, as the Restaurant, and is the most inexpensive, so it is not necessary to have a large amount of money to offer their couple a lovely evening, but that can be very interesting

10. If it can allow, take it on vacation an exotic place, like a beautiful island, only you two solos, with Sun and a lot of water, where will spend a wonderful time together, and don't bother for friends, family, family

11. But, if you can not afford the luxury of going on an exotic place, towards the sea, there is no problem; bubble together bathrooms are always magical moments;

12. Surprise visits; surprise with their visits When not expected at all, while you are capable of sorprenderl

Thursday, November 15, 2012

The Cougar Club


The best page on Facebook for Cougars and Cubs is The Cougar Club

If you're a woman over 35, you can submit your photo to be posted on the page and make a lot of new friends.

If you're a guy of any age, you'll be blown away by all the beautiful women on the page.

Check it out today!

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Shy Cub


Hi Lucia,

I'm 25 years of age. There is a pretty gal that I work with, who somewhat resembles you...she is 40 years of age.  I am very attracted to her.  Occasionally her and I have small-talk. I wish I had the courage to eventually ask her out.  What should I do?  Kenny


Hi Kenny,

Before asking her out, ask yourself if things would be awkward if you dated and things didn't work out.  No one wants to go to a job where they have to see an ex that they wish they were still dating or vice versa.  If it's not against company policy and you'll be okay with whatever the outcome is, then go for it.

The good news is that she probably already knows you're interested in her. The bad news is that if she hasn't already made the move herself, then it will be up to you.

Since you are shy, the best way to do it would be to ask her out without really asking her out.  That means, pay attention to your conversations. If she mentions a movie she'd like to see or of an event /restaurant she's been thinking of checking out,  that's your cue to say something like,  "We should check it out sometime" or "We should go there sometime".

You'll know by her reaction whether she wants to go out with you or not. If she says something like,  "That would be great", you've got to green light. If she seems hesitant it means she's not interested or she could already be involved with someone else.

Thursday, July 12, 2012

How to Catch a Cougar!


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What if I were to tell you that Cougars aren't that difficult to figure out, once you have the inside scoop on what they're looking for?

And what if I were to tell you that once you find out what makes Cougars tick, you'll practically be able to get any Cougar you want!

And what if I also told you that whether you're simply looking for a hot, steamy encounter or a long term, committed relationship, I could teach you what you need to know in order to be successful with older women?

Sound good so far?

According to a 2009 survey, 45% of Cougars have dated at least 5 younger men and 48% prefer guys 24-29 years old.

What does this mean for you?

It means that almost half the Cougars you meet not only have years of experience dating men their own age or older, they're also quite savvy with younger men. 

 
If you happen to fall outside the "ideal" age range a

nd/or you've never dated a Cougar before, it's going to be a lot harder to "close the deal".

 
If you're looking for a casual, no string attached encounter, you'll be happy to know at least 39% of Cougars are also looking for the same thing. 

 
If you're looking for a relationship, that leaves 61% of Cougars who are looking for you.


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Monday, June 18, 2012

First Date Success Tips

The first thing we must take into account is what you want to convey to the other person, what part of us would like to leverage at the time of the appointment to ensure the success of our goal.

In proactive women below we will see some simple and useful as dress in the first date tips.

Choose clothing suitable for a first date is very important to give a good impression

One of the most frequent doubts relate to clothing, especially with the type of clothing to be, that clothes are more suitable and which is best left side that day even though it is our favourite clothes.

Choose clothes for the first appointment

If you plan to buy clothes for the first date think first in that place and time will be the event that does not use the same type of clothes for an elegant dinner than for a coffee in the afternoon.

It is recommended that the first appointment is use casual wear, men say to feel more comfortable when the girls wear jeans and sneakers (or similar clothing) when the first meeting is informal.

Many men say that they do not like women occur on a first date wearing extravagant clothing, too short skirts, sweeping necklines, dresses very tight or much brightness.

At this point we must define that this is thought male when they expect to meet a possible girlfriend, another type of dating that style of clothing them not dislike.

Women also report feeling more taste if the guy uses jeans or casual pants and shirt or t-shirt, say instead that they might feel uncomfortable with a man's suit and tie, except that for his work should dress so.

Wear clothes of fashion in the first quote is perfect, both men and women are abreast of the latest trends and like knowing that your future partner also knows that kind of clothing is used.

In conclusion we can say that clothes for a first date does not differ much from which he usarías in any output with your friends or friends and just have to bear in mind three points, which is adequate for the schedule of the event, which is not too formal and has nothing extravagant or that attracts too much attention.

Tips for Seduce a Woman

My mental attitude at that time was "I am simply passing my day." But, Hey, if any sexy girl want to win my attention well!. "And if happens, I'm going to enjoy my day in the same way."
I have advised to a without number of men, and one of the mistakes that I see more often that committed is that a man when you start a conversation with a girl this is get a response from her. And this is not at all good. Perhaps strives too by making her laugh.

Or it begins to ask strange questions that should not be of interest when you talk to a complete stranger (eg.) ("What you focus?" or "what your day?") If you take these tips for link to A woman you'll have success with them.

Link to A woman - care tips

Tips for linking to A woman: Attention to this, and man you well, this puts it to her in a value more high, superior to him.

Look, if you qualify a woman worth more higher than yours (such as when you try to gain your attention), this automatically or instinctively, women will lose any attraction towards you. Note that and is that in any conversation, always one of those is reacting more than the other.

The person that is reacting less (that is, the more relaxed in the conversation) is the most dominant person, or Alpha. So if you're the person who is winning the approval of the other will be your which is most attracted.

Then the girl will fight to make his trivial talk and keep the tense conversation, while your value is higher than herself.

It is not a secret that women are attracted to men who are a challenge for them to your way of seeing.

So if at some point she realizes that your are trying to win their approval, because then you will no longer be more challenging for her and will lose interest in you.

These tips for linking to A women are very important notes! Always keep the alpha state and remains in control of the situation right from the start. Be sure to not react to what a girl never too.

It remains always more relaxed than her. The point of my talk with you is the best way to enter into a conversation with a woman is this: do not try. That don't you worry what she thinks. Simply say what you want.

This way is more secure you can link to a woman. As always waiting for this article for tips for linking to A women you liked.

Monday, May 28, 2012

Secrets to Know Girls in Chat

Want to meet new girls? You have little time available?

Girls in chat and learn 'the ideal solution for all people involved or very little ability to find a soul mate around premises.

Knowing Girls in Chate 'easy but requires a number of techniques that are different by the typical of the Italian male.

So, a fascinating man who can speak to a woman and get her attention, before experimenting with the onlne dating services

Choose the right Chat On the internet there are various online dating services, which differ in goals (casual dating, relationship dating purposes, marriage agencies), by age brackets' (in particular services intended for mature audiences) or by style of life (services for religious groups, single parents, married people). It 's necessary to understand what you are looking on the internet, which group you belong and to which group belong the girls who prefer to meet

Build a good profile to build a profile, the first rule and 'credibility'. Meet girls in chat no means fool people. Thus personal data such as age, his description and photos must be accurate and updated. It 's useless to insert false photos or elderly. If the purpose is 'to meet a person, does not make sense and' counter-starting intercourse lying. The second rule and 'stand out. We must therefore avoid in a standard way to describe themselves, but rather 'and' necessary to exploit the spaces that leave to enter chat phrases / quotes from the only ones who post the profile mass.

Girls choose the right to know girls in chat, and 'need to understand what girls are just based on their physical characteristics. So it's 'Do not try this only with the girls' and especially with attractive women who live far away. In the first case, due to competition, the opportunity 'to receive an answer, and' very limited. In the second case, however, the chance 'to get a meeting, and' close to zero.

Being original Approach "Hello, how are you" chat does not work 'cause every girl that has dozens of men approaching in this way. To meet girls in chat, like the profile, the secret and 'stand by saying something that is original, unique (and therefore not worth sending to all the same sentence), and most importantly relevant to that girl. Our advice and 'read the profile of girls who want to learn to take cues and start talking about their hobbies, books / movies they like, their animals. So, already 'in the first sentence to make it clear that the interest and' true and not just based on their photos.

Maintain contact with the girls, this is 'the most' easy but essential to get to a meeting. Once you begin to chat and is set in a certain feeling, and 'should ask for a personal contact to feel outside of the chat, of course without being rude or pushy. The mobile phone and 'very personal, and therefore better start asking Facebook or MSN. pear , in case you left the phone, we recommend using it to invite the girl out. It 's so that you get to meet girls in chat.

Sunday, May 27, 2012

Secrets to seduction

The seduction is a technique, even a subtle and sometimes difficult to learn and especially to maintain without the proper dedication and tenacious perseverance.

Usually the most common mistake that men who want to learn to know the secrets and techniques to seduce a woman is to listen to the usual useless advice provided by the usual friends.

Always very good at talking and telling their fancy, and probably very often invented experiences of conquest and much less able, indeed almost always completely denied to women and to gain a truly win her heart, sometimes even unable to even go out with her for a trivial event.

Usually the advice received from a friend who is proposed as the seducer sailed out to be among the worst among all those that a man could receive.

Listening may seem like good advice, however, are not seldom and the main reason why they are hardly ever good advice is very simple and obvious: if they were valid and effective tips nobody would reveal them to you.

Your friend would put them in practice, showing off her seductive arts of sailing and certainly would not be in dispensarti tips and thus risk having a tough competitor to overcome thanks to the fact of having revealed his valuable tricks.

"Every left is lost" is a common way to say nice and very appropriate to the situation, however, is almost always offers the typical seducer. More women have a chance to learn, the more likely it is you seduce a.

The logical and natural consequence is that you avoid the courtship or the attempt to get acquainted with an interesting woman you will inevitably lead to a lack of opportunity for conquest.

Let it go to court or groped to seduce a woman never wears, or almost never, for a victory, but you've let the run, you missed an opportunity.

Do not pull it back, ever be the watchword, never miss an opportunity for a greeting or a funny joke if only from afar and with a quick gesture with his hand.

Never hesitate to approach groped, even if superficial, and perhaps without ulterior motives, it may even be useful at a later time, perhaps when you least expect it.

There are no excuses for not doing so. If you meet a woman, even if you see just pass the escape holes nod accompanied by a kind and pleasant smile. It will surely appreciate, as well as being a sign of good manners.

When you talk to a woman who interests you can not let the case to dictate the path of the subjects that conversation, the discussion might crawl into topics uninteresting, empty or even dangerous to the success of the conquest.

If you're talking to a woman who may not want to risk that she imposed on her ex, or the discussion of issues that are likely to move the center of your relationship into a friendship rather than to a new love.

So you always start the conversation and keep in mind to always be in the track of the topics that interest you and you need; focuses well your last and only goal: the conquest and seduction of the woman with whom you are talking to, you can make comfortable with the woman you are chatting, teasing her with jokes and try to joke with her, without ever losing sight of the ultimate goal, its achievement.

So when the innocent incalzerai with a joke you try to evoke feelings of pleasure and passion in every way to avoid re-emerge in his mind problems, disagreements with people of common knowledge, gossip and so on.

So, should feel at ease with you and be in a situation which would never pleasant to get away.

Later, when things have made the right turn and you're probably realizing his interest in you can also try to touch it with one hand, for example to reinforce a joke and poke around what will be his reaction, you'll see for yourself that if the topics discussed were interesting and stimulating for her, her smile and her eyes will grant to continue and transform the simple touch of a hand in a caress, and then, perhaps, in a kiss.

After some time you try this technique you can try to begin to think about the results you see, you're getting, and you want to achieve in the future.

You'll wonder how you're going and see what are your strengths and get better value and show everyone where your weaknesses to improve and groped to conceal or disguise.

Try comparing the situations in which you found and try to wonder why this time it went wrong and the next time a little 'better. You'll definitely differences in the attitudes that have held against your favorite, which had decreed a result rather than another.

Refining your approach with women and learning the subtle art of seduction will also be able to know before you even know what a woman will be difficult to conquer, or even what it will be easy if you learned to be a good seducer; above you can find out in advance what weapons do you have to pull off.

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Flirt Meaning and Definition

Flirting is a communicational style using both men and women to create and maintain on the attraction. Nowadays when you hang out.

♥ Mess, and you maintain a positive mental attitude, away from the problems of everyday life.

♥ It whets the other person in a playful manner creating and nurturing the sexual tension.

♥ When a woman submits a man to the test.

Flirting is not composed solely on verbal communication, but also by the notice from the para-verbal and nonverbal. This includes physical contact and confidence with which it is made.

Why flirt creates attraction
The Alpha male, in all animals (including man) is the individual with better survivability.
In many animals is the physical strength to determine who is the Alpha male. But in humans (and some studies are showing that vorse is also true for primates) is not as physically strong to be seen as an Alpha male.

In humans, the alpha male is the one most able to survive in society. For the rich men and / or famous are usually surrounded by many women because, subconsciously, they transmit their better ability to survive in society.

But wealth and fame are just the result of another feature, which is the charisma. The charisma is definitely what allows you to attract women you want. It is also the feature that allows you to get much more out of life.
Flirting, you transmit your charisma. By transmitting your charisma provide will your confidence in yourself, your values, your way of seeing and dealing with life and you'll see the girl, unconsciously, you can feel safe with you and spend many happy moments.
How does the flirt.

Often, when searching for the meaning of flirting, we seek practical strategies. Unfortunately, the practical strategies of flirt are in flux. This is because they are influenced by culture and events involving the company.

It is therefore important that the flirting is spontaneous and not based on tricks or techniques. Because the techniques and tricks become obsolete very quickly. Conversely, being spontaneous, the way you flirt "will update" automatically with the current times.
As you develop charisma.

To develop the charisma corare serves two basic components: communication and personality.

The sooner you can only be improved by a lot of practice, knowing many people and learning how to interact with others better.

The second can be developed by studying the manual of seduction, dating many women and experiencing many different experiences.

Friday, May 25, 2012

How to flirt and attract women

What exactly is all about flirting? It's a sexual thing? Perhaps it may even seem a little 'you pervert. How to flirt and attract women?

Flirting is definitely not perverted. In fact, Flirting is an intelligent, playful, powerful and sexual communication that turns a woman. First of all, that attempts to define what exactly is flirting and what not.

Flirting is an attitude of having fun, being natural, be yourself, be sure, he's fine just a little 'cocky, arrogant, without seeming to be too arrogant. Even if you're not a very attractive, or a very rich man, if you flirt properly, will create a sort of sexual tension that naturally attract women to you.

Natural confidence in a man is a demonstration of power and yes, women are sexually attracted to such power, although they will never be able to explain it clearly.


Good, intelligent flirting cause women to be sexually attracted to you. Making fun of a woman deftly playing with your words in your conversation is a great way to flirt. Flirt good and respond very favorable to you or should I say, sexually favor you.


It is very important that you flirt, beginning, even if you say only a few clever lines. If you tell them at the beginning of the conversation, guess what? It will leave in his mind that will cause her to remember you as a smart guy, funny and interesting to talk to a huge impression. The first impression will really last, especially in the mind of a woman.


A good way to do this is by using such inversions. By this I mean taking gender stereotypes and turning them around. Here's an example. If you catch her looking at you, you can say:


"Because ... I know I keep looking at my sexy body and wants you so bad you're drooling, but we can not be friends first?"

Storing silly, overused pickup lines and jokes slightly banal, it will only work if it was still in the seventies! One thing about women is that they love men who are real. Men who are natural. Men who are secure in themselves and do not bother to try to be someone else, display an aura of attraction that most women can not resist.

Most men always forget the fact that women are strong enough mentally and you can pick up signals much faster than men. Women can detect when you are trying to act like someone else or when you are yourself.

So take your time to flirt the right way and see how women respond to you. You will be surprised to know how easy it can be done.

If you deny or agree that back, it is on! It is therefore necessary to increase the stakes and continue to flirt. Do not turn into a nerd right now and return to normal conversational tone. Otherwise, all you have done will be counterproductive.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

I'm Obsessed With My Cub!


Hi Lucia,
I've been daing a cub 20 years younger than me for about six months. I allow myself to become obsessed with what he's doing when I'm not with him. I hate not feeling in control.  How can I stop obsessing and get back in the driver's seat of this relationship?  Claire

Hi Claire,

By constantly thinking about him, you are putting him on a pedestal and turning him into a "God" in your mind when he is merely a mortal man.  Since you feel out of control, you will feel as if you need to control him in order to get back in the "driver's seat".  However, this usually has the opposite effect, as everyone wants to feel free and runs away when they start to feel someone is trying to control them.  You're basically making your fears come true.

The way to stop obsessing about anything or anyone, is to focus on something or someone else.  What else are you passionate about that you use to divert your attention from him?  A hobby, working out, maybe another guy who you are attracted to?  

We can never totally control other people, so focus on what you can control, and you will both be a lot happier!

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Falling in love with a friend

Falling in love with a friend, nothing extraordinary. Falling for a friend can happen quite often, especially between two people who share a lot of things in common with each other.

Friends usually spend a lot of time together. Friends often do the same things together. Commonality is the main reason people become friends. However there are times when too much familiarity can be exchanged for something more.

This type of situation occurs especially among friends of opposite sex. The kindness and affection can be easily confused with friendly feelings of love. Very often, women are the ones who fall prey to this attraction. However, many men were also in the same situation.

Gestures that normally mean nothing is interpreted as something more than what it is. A lot of people get mixed messages about friendship with the opposite sex. Situations like these are normal, but up to the individual to learn how he or she will look into it.

Falling for a Friend - E 'each other?

And 'each other? People who end up falling in love with a friend should consider if the feeling is actually mutual. Unfortunately, most friendships are just friendships. Falling for a friend can somehow complicates the friendship.

All people who value friendship, especially with the opposite sex, since many find it difficult to maintain a platonic relationship with the opposite sex. Because of this, have a tendency to avoid situations in which a friend would fall to virtually end the friendship.

In general, many men and women are true and devoted friends. However there are some men and women who can not resist their attraction to the opposite sex. Many romantics often fall victim to this situation and end up ruining any chance of a successful relationship with the opposite sex.

How to handle the situation of Falling for a Friend

Once a person has established that he or she has in fact fallen for his friend, you must figure out the next move. The next move is crucial for the survival of friendship. A person who is in love with a friend can take advantage of the situation or the feeling to pass.

Most of the time, a loyal friend who would let the feeling pass. Taking into account all the reasons why fall in love with a friend would be detrimental to the friendship. This is perhaps because relationships never last more romantic, and almost all friendships last a lifetime.

A lot of people also go to the feeling of fear of embarrassment. Especially if the feeling is not mutual, which is often the case in which it falls to a friend. Unfortunately this can also cause a person of extreme anxiety that may also strain the friendship.

On the other hand, there are some people who are willing to risk the friendship in the name of love. These individuals run the risk to freely express their feelings for a friend. However, the person must also be ready to face the possibility that the feeling was not reciprocated.

This makes the situation more complex, like coming in friendship, after a public declaration of affection can also strain the relationship. In most cases, both parties begin to feel uncomfortable in each other's company. You feel guilty for expressing their emotions, while the other feels guilty for not being able to return the affection.

However, if both parties truly share the sentiment, then it would definitely be a match made in heaven for both parties. This means that the ratio has the possibility of flowering in a ratio legitimate and possibly durable.

It would still need a lot of hard work and commitment by both parties. But keep in mind that this is a unique opportunity in life that may or may not happen.

Falling for a friend is a difficult situation for any man or woman in the face. The risk of losing the friendship is imminent and even more painful for the victim. On the other hand, fall in love with a friend can lead to a beautiful future between two people who really care about each other, provided both are willing to work at it.

Good dating advice for men

Take your dating advice for men from people who you know have had successful dating relationships. Avoid taking dating advice from someone who has had a series of dates that never led to a further relationship.

Young men and single men are more often at a loss when it comes to the opposite sex. Women are so confusing! When you make a move on a girl you think is romantic and gallant, it may go away disappointed, deeply rejected without the slightest idea of ​​what you did wrong. It 's true, men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. While you might think that Prince Valiant presented an image, the girl of your dreams does not seem to agree. Why, you ask? Here are five great dating tips for men that are sure to improve your chances.

You must first understand that women have heard all the standard lines. Give your woman a little 'credit. L '"I have not met before?" approach is vacuous at best. If she is worth your time, you must be a bit 'more imaginative and personal. If you are hoping to get his attention, his approach with something a bit 'more personal but not intrusive.

For example, finding a beautiful girl in the stadium. Leave your friends behind. They will not be of any help. "Excuse me, but I could not help noticing your T-shirt. I'm a fan of the Lakers and have a couple of tickets for the match on Friday. Would you be interested?" It will be noticed and flattered that he will be less inclined to continue the conversation.

According to our list of dating tips for men seeking a real relationship: Personal hygiene is important for women. Women like their men and their houses clean. If you think a shower and shave once a week is great, think again. The women make assesment of the book cover, so to speak, before making a final assesment of data-dignity. If you think that the macho man image includes stinkiness, you're wrong. Wash and use a little 'of cologne, if necessary, to present a loving person.

Now, our list of dating tips for men to the core. Treat your woman with respect. Many men treat women as airheads, incapable of seeing through their manipulations. Do not make this mistake, if you hope to get a date! Discover what it was and cultivate an interest that shows you care.

The fourth rule of our dating tips for men it is necessary that you are sincere. Women can see through insincerity in a heartbeat. If you are really interested in this woman on the show. Lip service will not. If you love the theater, take the off-Broadway production. If you're having fun too, you have a match.

So far, our dating tips for men has focused on enticing your date. The fifth rule is honesty and absolute. Women fall for honesty.

The essence of dating tips for men is this: be yourself. If your hygiene is poor, improve it. Do not rely on slick lines. Express your interest really. Do these things and you have a date.

Make a Perfect Dating Formula

 Make a Perfect Dating Formula

Dating can be the best way to find your ideal life. Before jumping into the dating scene, be sure to ask what your needs are and what qualities you want in your new partner. Just read to learn things to do and prohibitions of successful dating.

Be positive and honest makes the perfect formula for Dating


  Do not try to hide your past relationships. Instead it is open to date on past experiences and partners. If the date is mature and sensitive enough he or she will understand and sympathize with her.

  Do not exaggerate about yourself or past experiences, memories, a relationship that is based on dishonesty is bound to fail.

  Share with your date your expectations for the new relationship and try to understand also what are the expectations of your date is.

  Based on your experience, try to judge if the new man or woman of your life has something in common with your ex. If it seems quite a few features that make you feel uncomfortable, then it can be a good idea to terminate the relationship before it's too serious.

Things to keep in mind during meetings

  There is no rule restricting a person today at the beginning. Try now actively and also to meet different people through dating services so you can better understand what kind of partners who can best provide a loving relationship. Dating does not require any commitment now, it's just a process that helps you find the right partners who are willing to commit your love.

  Proceed one step at a time to build a stable and lasting love relationship with your new partner. Being too hesitant or too impatient when dating will not help you find the right partner for you.

  Do not get emotionally involved from the outset and not reveal too much at an early stage. Take the time to judge for yourself if you're really in love with the person or if it's just infatuation.

Any relationship between a man and a woman is complex and unpredictable and exciting, otherwise life would be so lonely and meaningless. Dating just helps make the process easier and more natural to find the right person for you.

Friday, March 30, 2012

NY City comic loves Cougars!



Jayson Cross, a comic from New York city loves Cougars.  He says they are "the only cats he's not allergic to"!

Watch him in action!

Friday, March 23, 2012

Miss Cougar America 2012



One Lucky Cougar will win the title of Miss Cougar America 2012, as well a free berth on the International Cougar Cruise.  To be selected Miss Cougar America, she must be at least 35 (proof of age required), legally single, attracted to younger men, and available to the news media for interviews.

Special Guest of Honor: 
Johnny Ray, The Cougar King.


Date:  Lucky Friday the 13th of April, 8pm-Midnight

COST: $20/door. Food available at additional cost.


LOCATION:
Hard Rock Cafe, Pier 39, San Francisco CA 94133.


2 hours free validated parking at Pier 39 Parking Lot with any purchase at Hard Rock.


More information:  www.Cougarevents.com

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Cougar Reality Show - Chicago


Tglo Media is seeking men who date older women and women who date younger men for a new reality show currently in production for a major cable network.   Males must be at least 10 years her junior and women 10 years his senior.

Are you…
·      Only attracted to younger men?
·      Married to a younger man or older women?
·      Are only attracted to older women?
·      Have you been referred to as a “boy toy”?
·      Referred to as a “Sugar Mama”
·      Referred to as a “Cougar”
·      A Soccer Mom that dates men much younger
·      Living a fabulous life without any regrets
·   Conflicted with family and friends due to your choice in younger men

If you or someone you know is interested in sharing your unique story, please submit the following information to casting@tglomedia.com:

Name
Address
City, State, Zip
Email Address
Photo or Headshot
60 Second Introduction Video “Why would you be great for reality TV?” - preferred not mandatory

Monday, February 20, 2012

How to Catch a Cougar


The key to success with Cougars is to know what they're looking for in a younger man, also known as a "Cub".

 I'd like to give you this powerful information so you can enjoy the kind of success with Cougars that most Cubs can only dream of!


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Would you like to be with a sexy Cougar like the one in this photo?  She's actually single and available, but why would she choose you?

What if I were to tell you that Cougars aren't that difficult to figure out, once you have the inside scoop on what they're looking for?

And what if I were to tell you that once you find out what makes Cougars tick, you'll practically be able to get any Cougar you want!

And what if I also told you that whether you're simply looking for a hot, steamy encounter or a long term, committed relationship, I could teach you what you need to know in order to be successful with older women?

Sound good so far?

According to a 2009 survey, 45% of Cougars have dated at least 5 younger men and 48% prefer guys 24-29 years old.

What does this mean for you?  

It means that almost half the Cougars you meet not only have years of experience dating men their own age or older, they're also quite savvy with younger men.
If you happen to fall outside the "ideal" age range and/or you've never dated a Cougar before, it's going to be a lot harder to "close the deal".
If you're looking for a casual, no string attached encounter, you'll be happy to know at least 39% of Cougars are also looking for the same thing.
If you're looking for a relationship, that leaves 61% of Cougars who are looking for you.

For more information, go to:  How to Catch a Cougar

Friday, January 27, 2012

My Cougar Doesn't Want to Marry Me!

Hi Lucia,

I'm 20 and my partner is 34.   Recently she said she wants to get married at some point.   She is always evasive or changes the subject when I bring up specifically her marrying me, as opposed to just generally wanting to get married. This makes me think that she is just having fun with me and doesn't plan to actually marry me at some future time. 

She has said that she won't like me a bit more for trying to act older but I'm worried she needs someone who's not a kid to her and will ultimately go for someone more her peer. 

Am I just imagining it?  Ryan


Hi Ryan,

I'm sorry but I have to chuckle because it in the past it was generally women wondering if they were being used, but obviously the tide is turning!

In a  2009 study by Cougared.com,  only 4% of Cougars said they preferred to date Cubs 20-23.  Older women know men in their early 20s are still sowing their wild oats, so they rarely consider them "marriage material".

The good news is that she is at least willing to date you - the majority of older women wouldn't even give you a chance.  She's right - acting older is not going to help because you're not being yourself.  Only a year ago you were still in your teens, so there is no way you're going to be "mature".

All you can do is treat her well and show her you're willing to grow and become the type of man that any woman would be proud to date.  The rest is up to her!






Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Cougar or Sugar Mama?

Hi Lucia,

What is the difference between a Cougar and a Sugar Mama?  Blake


Hi Blake,

This is a great question because many people often confuse the two.

A Sugar Mama  is a woman of any age who provides financial and material "assistance" to men, usually younger.  She may or may not be a Cougar (over 40).

On the other hand, a Cougar may also be a Sugar Mama, but not usually.  She's generally not looking to provide for the Cub but rather either for a sexual fling or a relationship with a man at least 10 years her junior.

Hope this clears things up!









Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Is She a Cougar?

Hi Lucia,

I'm 23 years and there is a 40ish, extremely hot lady at the gym who dresses to kill and seduce.  She does wear a ring or should I say more than one.  How can I find out if she is a Cougar?  Sean

Hi Sean,

The fact that she dresses to "kill and seduce" as you say (although, shouldn't it be the other way around), could mean one of two things:  1)  She is indeed a Cougar who is on the prowl and wants to attract as much attention as possible or 2) She's in a relationship or married and not getting enough attention, so she uses her clothes to make her feel wanted and attractive, but she has no intentions of going any further.

As usual, the only way to know if she's available is to talk to her. When people are available, they're more willing to socialize at the gym, so strike up a conversation.  

To learn how to do this, sign up for my free teleseminar, "How to Catch a Cougar". 







Sunday, January 1, 2012

How to Catch a Cougar Free Teleseminar


                                                                                 

Do you want to date a Cougar but feel clueless and awkward?  Would you like to learn how to easily and effortlessly catch  the Cougar of your choice?  Then join me on January 17, 2012 for a free teleseminar.


Find out: 

How to approach, impress and attract an older woman


What you should never say to a Cougar when contacting her online.

How to appear confident and mature - even if you're not!

How to know if she's interested in you.

How to ask her out

Where to go on the first date

Sex - when and how?

How to keep a Cougar


and much, much more!



Stop being rejected and learn how to catch the Cougar of your choice!

Sign up at:  www.howtocatchacougar.net