Five Big Fat Dating Lies

From a very early age, most of us are taught that lying…just isn't good! Dare we forget what happened to that poor wooden puppet boy Pinocchio? Every lie he told made his nose grow that much longer. Surely, we didn't want that to ever happen to us, so for the most part, we have tried to tell the truth.

Still, despite our efforts, there are a lot of lies circulating around the world, especially when it comes to dating! Some of the lies are told to us by other people and some of them, we actually tell ourselves.

Let's examine 5 Big Fat Dating Lies.

Dating Lie #1.
"You'll find love when you least expect it."

How many times do you need to be told this big fat lie? When I was single this was the one lie that I really hated hearing. In fact, so often when well intention family and friends (who were all part of a couple) would say to me, "Just stop looking! You'll find love when you least expect it." I would respond back with a quick, "I've been least expecting it for quite some time, thank you very much!"

I don't think you find love when you least expect it. That's as stupid as saying, "You'll get a job when you least expect it." Do you think anyone would ever recommend that a person interested in a new career should not look? Don't send out a resume either, I suppose. Don't search in the classifieds for a new job. In fact, just give up the job search all together and suddenly, miraculously your dream job will show up, unannounced… when you least expect it! Right? Wrong! That entire thought process is insane!

I believe in looking, I believe in putting yourself out there, I believe that just giving up isn't the answer to finding love! Changing your mindset is the answer !

What does changing your mindset mean?

It means that you will find love… not when you "least expect it" but instead when you are truly ready for it. Someone who is ready for a relationship has taken time to have a healthy perspective on themselves and a real attitude toward others.

They no longer are looking for Prince Charming or Ms. Beauty Queen to come into their lives, fall madly in love with them and live happily ever after. They are being open minded to the true qualities of a person versus superficial ones that fade over time. They will begin to look at members of the opposite sex with a more realistic set of eyes. They become attracted to someone that they can talk with, have fun with and most importantly have the same ideals, values and hopefully goals for themselves.

When you are ready to get real and be open to that kind of sincere love in your life… then you will find love and you won't just be "least expecting it”."

Dating Lie #2.
"All the good ones are taken"

This lie is very interesting to me. If all the good ones are taken then why are you still single? Are you really a loser? Of course not! The fact is that there are over 100 Million single people just in the United States alone! I bet there are more than a few of them that are great… just like you! Don't buy into this negative thinking.

Dating Lie #3.
I'll know it when I meet "the one"

Every romantic on earth wants to meet, "The One." "The One" is our soulmate, right? He/She is just perfect for us. They can practically finish our sentences, they laugh at our jokes when everyone else thinks the jokes are stupid, we are wildly attracted to "The One" and there is an immediate chemistry that we just can't deny.

Let's get real, Romeo!

This type of initial chemistry does not mean that we have met, "The One." In fact, it's nothing more than pheromones initiated in our body that is part of the natural mating process, creating the desire to procreate and continue the human species.

Don't get me wrong, this initial attraction is wonderful and serves its purpose to further develop a relationship. That's great! But, it is rarely true lasting love.

True lasting love is one that stands the course of time. It is about meeting someone you are attracted to, getting to know them on a deep friendship level, truly caring about their needs and making a commitment to be truthful, respectful, supportive and loving toward them. I know many people who have fallen in love with someone they had known and been friends with for years. And then one day, they realize they have more feelings for that person than they realized. Friendship is an excellent building block for true love!

Don't mistake that initial feeling of chemistry as true love… and don't ever assume that it might take you awhile to realize that "The One" you have been looking for, has been there all along.

Dating Lie #4.
The Three Day Rule

If you meet someone you want to go out with, don't call them for three days. This way, you won't appear too desperate.

Who ever came up with this stupid rule? As a woman, I can tell you that when I was single this was one rule that I always thought should be broken. If you are fortune enough to meet someone you want to get to know better, then why wait three days to tell them so? Stop playing games! Most people love attention and everyone likes to know that someone else in this world finds them interesting.

Dating Lie #5
"I don't want to settle"

Have people told you that you're too picky? Is your standard answer, "I don't want to settle!" Do you think you are doing yourself a favor by waiting for the perfect person to come into your life? Would you rather be alone than be happy with someone who isn't perfect? Have you closed yourself off and set your standards so high that even Michael Jordan couldn't reach the rim?

The truth is that if you're expecting to find someone who is everything you ever dreamed of and you still find yourself alone after years and years of disappointment - let me enlighten you… "YOU ARE SETTLING!" Settling… for being perpetually single, unable to get real, unable to be realistic and unhappy about being alone.

We all make choices in life. We all settle for "something" too. We may love living in a big city, because we love the shopping, the cultural experiences, the night life, the restaurants and the job opportunities. On the other hand, we hate traffic, smog, crowds etc. Get the point? Everything in life is a give and a take… especially long lasting love relationships. Don't settle for being alone too long, if you don't want to be.

Remember the truth behind dating lie #2… there are over 100 million singles in this country… so refer back to the truth behind lie #1 and start looking in all the right places! You will find love, when your heart is open and you are truly ready to find it!

Jackie Mahaney is a dating & relationship journalist as well as an inspiring author of a novel titled, "Meet Delaney" and host of "Everyday Woman" found on Women Web TV. Mahaney writes about life's personal relationships with honesty, integrity and of course, humor! To learn more about her books, relationship events and web tv show, visit Jackie Mahaney.

Be Safe When You Date

On line dating is a dating service based on the internet, because it is based on the internet it can reach out to every corner of the globe and so is much further reaching and with many more subscribers than a conventional dating service. Even so it would be unreasonable to expect to meet Miss or Mr Right on your first online date.

The internet makes the search for love more convenient, it can save time and money.

Online dating was once thought to be (by many) unacceptable. You must (as with any unknown) be ever vigilant of your safety. If you feel in the slightest bit uncomfortable then cease communications with the person concerned. You will have the facility of blocking a person you feel uncomfortable with.

You will be required to complete an online dating profile, be as truthful as possible in this if you are hoping to find a life long partner; any discrepancies may be difficult to explain later.

If you are single and looking for love or friendship why not try one of the many online dating services. You can easily see who has checked out your profile and who there is that matches your criteria.

There is not the stigma attached to online dating today as there was years ago and most people are genuinely looking for love from the choice of millions of potential partners. You do not have to meet anyone unless you want to and you should not disclose any personal details for example your phone number, address or email address until you are 100% comfortable in doing so. If you have waited a lifetime to meet Mr or Miss Right a little while longer waiting until you feel secure won’t hurt.

Love is the main reason people turn to online dating. Before you begin online dating ask yourself are you looking for love and commitment or is it friendship that you want. If you only want friendship and whoever you are chatting to clearly wants more then simply more on to another online date.

Likewise if you are looking for love and the person you are chatting to clearly does not want commitment then this is not for you and there are plenty of other potential partners to try.

Get to know someone and see if you enjoy spending time with them. Are they fun to communicate with? Do you feel you can trust your online date?

The bigger sites have more features and some will screen their clients .But while the bigger sites may have webcams etc they are really only aimed at dating people in general. Always remember that you can have as much privacy as you want, you are in control.

If someone is not very forthcoming give them a chance, they may be painfully shy and who knows once you manage to make them feel confident they may be just what you were looking for, so please do have a little patience and don’t dismiss anyone too easily but if it makes you feel uncomfortable then more on to someone else.

May you find whatever you are looking for and enjoy what you have.

Jayne Waldorf lives in Cheshire,England with her husband she invites you to visit her new website http://www.waldorfelite.com where you will find advice, information and merchandise relating to dating, relationships, weddings and marriage.

Waiting For Him to Call? 3 Hot Tips to Save You From Desperation!

If you are reading this you’re probably trying to bide time till he finally calls and you don’t know if he will or not, but you’ve got that tight feeling in your chest or not quite in the chest, a bit lower, just below the rib cage, in the center, twisting, squeezing, it’s hard to breathe!

If he doesn’t call, fine you’ll get over it and move on. BUT if he does call now you may have already lost the game because like it or not you’ve entered the realm of ‘neediness’ and needy is a bad start to any relationship. You want to be the one rolling the dice or you’re going to be at his mercy!

What To Do?

Well, the best advice would be: if and when he does finally call, be glad that he did and don’t answer. If you feel like this so early in the game it is almost guaranteed to end in tears! There is a synchronization to relationships and that feeling you have means there is NO synchronization: ‘let it go!’

Let’s Be Real

You would probably like to blow him off, but you’re jumping every time the phone rings so when he finally calls you won’t be able to help yourself, you’re going to grab that phone and sound as sweet and inviting as you possibly can. Don’t beat yourself up about it, 90% of women would do the same thing. Relax, enjoy getting the phone call and do some damage control instead:

1. You can’t seem too eager, so be very casual and try to arrange it so that it is you who is calling him next time. If you talk about meeting up tell him you’ve got quite a busy schedule, plenty of engagements and you you’ll call him to confirm the arrangements. Now he is waiting for you to call, wondering whether you’ll be available or not. If you say you’ll call Friday, call late Friday or even Saturday. You want to make yourself a little mysterious, a little unavailable. You want him to be wondering whether you’re interested, whether you will call, not the other way round.

2. When you meet up, be aloof, yet seductive, sexy yet elegant. Make him want you, but don’t let him know that is what is on your mind. Tease him like crazy, but definitely DO NOT go home with him OR have sex!

3. Continue making connections with other men. Don’t consider yourself off the market in any way. In fact contact all your friends. The more texts, emails and phone calls you are receiving at a time like this will take your mind off a) when is he going to call or, b) how soon before you call him back.

You are a Goddess and you can have most any guy you wish if you play it the right way, but keep in mind that when it comes to your true love there won’t be any games. You will both feel that synchronization immediately!

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10 Tips To Online Dating

Years ago, the grocery store was the best place to meet a potential new love interest. Today, online dating is quickly becoming the singles hot spot with individuals around the world looking to meet someone new. Photo profiles that detail personal information is becoming the norm in online dating and gives individuals an opportunity to see what a potential mate looks like on paper before taking the next step.

If you are considering online dating, there are a few tips that can help make the experience a more enjoyable and successful one.

Online Dating Tip # 1
Find someone who shares your common interest, life goals and family preferences. It is important to share some of the same hopes in order for a relationship to be worthwhile.

Online Dating Tip # 2
Use caution when giving out personal information, including your full name, address or telephone number. At first, provide nothing more than an e-mail address.

Online Dating Tip # 3
During casual conversations, look for possible warning signs of control, jealousy or tempers.

Online Dating Tip # 4
If an individual seems to be extremely needy or needs to talk to you every minute, this may be a sign of possessive behavior and should be recognized early. If you notice this happening, move on and find another possible online dating match.

Online Dating Tip # 5
Don’t be afraid to ask questions. It’s perfectly normal to inquire about marital status, children, hopes, dreams, etc. If someone is uncomfortable with these questions, it’s a good indication they have something to hide.

Online Dating Tip # 6
Don’t rush. Take the time to get to know someone before you decide that you are comfortable enough to meet them. A relationship takes time to build and there is no reason to rush into anything.

Online Dating Tip # 7
If you learn that someone hasn’t been honest about his/her profile or other detail, end the dating potential immediately. Dishonesty is no way to begin a relationship and it makes you question anything else that he/she may be hiding.

Online Dating Tip # 8
With honesty in mind, it is important that you be honest in your profile and with anyone whom you are having an online dating relationship with. If and when the relationship is ready to move to the next level, it will be too late to correct anything that wasn’t truthful and the chance of a relationship will likely be lost.

Online Dating Tip # 9
If you plan to meet someone in person, do so in a public place. Preferably, the meeting time would be early in the day or the afternoon. It is never a good idea to meet a perfect stranger at dark or in a secluded area.

Online Dating Tip # 10
Be yourself. Don’t pretend to like something or be someone that you are not just to please the other person. If they are the right one for you, there will not be a reason to pretend.

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Dating Tips – Use Your Friends

Having friends is a valuable gift that must be cherished on a daily basis. I’m not talking only about your best friends, the ones you call when you’re in trouble, or when you need to share your deepest thoughts and fears, I’m talking also about your buddies, your colleagues, your acquaintances, and all these people you might enjoy hanging out with once in a while.

How does this relate to dating?

Well, once you are out in the singles market, these people become an important asset, you should start looking at them not only as your friends but also as your free dating services. Not only that one of them may be single and suitable for your exact desires, but also each and every one of them have their own circle of friends in which there are certainly other singles who are looking for someone like you to have a relationship with.

There are two ways of accomplishing this – the first way is the direct way, which means literally asking your friends to be the matchmakers and set you up on a date with one of their friends.

The second option is starting to hang out with these friends and hopefully through their group hangouts (birthdays, holiday parties, etc.) you will get familiarized with their ‘goods’.

The main disadvantage of the group hangouts method is that it might seem abit odd if you’ll start tagging along to every party with one of your colleagues to whom you never said nothing but ‘hello’. Also it will take longer for you to get to know all of the new friends and find out who is single and suitable for you. These problems may be easily solved if you directly approach your friend and simply ask him \ her if they can set you up on a date with someone.

The main disadvantages of the direct way are of course making your friend feeling very uncomfortable, not having anyone to set you up with, or maybe not wanting to…

The second disadvantage is that it wouldn’t work.

Instead of having to avoid your friend for the rest of your life, make sure you don’t say or do anything inappropriate during the date that may insult your date or your friend, and remember that the person you went out with is not your friend and that it’s not his \ her fault it didn’t work out. On the contrary – feel grateful that friend was thoughtful enough to set you up with somebody and caring for you private life and happiness.

The main advantage of dating a friend’s friend is the flow of information. You no longer have to torment yourself after the date, pondering whether he \ she liked you, when to call and what to do next. One phone call and you’ll have a familiar voice answering all the questions you have. You have to remember, of course, that it goes in both directions, and that every impression you had is immediately passed to the other side. This convenience may be excellent in the early stages, when communication is doomed to be lacking and problematic. But if the relationship succeeds and you go on dating, you have to cease the informing duty of your mutual friend, and concentrate in creating your own and healthy means of communication.

Summing up – dating through friends is the safest way when it comes to the person you date with, but it’s the most risky way when it comes to your personal loss. The idea is to understand that when you are dating someone, the dynamics will always be different from the one you have with your friends, and you shouldn’t blame you friend for trying. On the other hand, if it succeeds, not only you’ll have the joy of having a wonderful relationship, but also I’m sure you will make your friend very proud of his \ her matchmaking skills!

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Dating And Relationship Tips

Since Dating and Relationships are such a large, important part of everyday life, this article strives to help clear up myths from facts and present an overview of surrounding issues.

Show Off – If you have a great body you’re trying to show off and young physical appearance, yet worry because you still seem to have difficulty finding dates and establishing relationships, here are some pointers. Turn off the “ME” focus. Others tend to see that as boorish and think you only care about yourself, not others and certainly not them. Instead, turn the focus on outside interests that the other person can relate to, even if it has to be the weather. For help, tune in to an online news source like CNN or subscribe to a national or other major newspaper or magazine like Newsweek or head to the public library for the latest news briefs.

Online dating might be a good outlet for you, to as it generally offers a place to list all your great physical qualities as well as outside interests and more, presenting a more rounded dating candidate. Then those who are VERY interested in great abs, youthful appeal, etc. will be able to check you out. And those who are interested in the other interests can focus on those, too.

Sit, Don’t Take a Stand – Instead of voicing your opinions over issues that you pretty well know, cause heated arguments, don’t take a stand. Just sit them out. There’s no shame in passing up an argument. For example, if you both call yourselves “Christians,” yet one of you firmly has a complete set of rules and regulations about what a “Christian” really is, and doesn’t hesitate to voice this, skip over conversations about religion. If you have to, simply say something along the lines of, “This gets us too heated, so let’s pass on if for now and move on to something else.” Agree that it’s okay to disagree. Because it is!

Traditions – Keep up with some old traditions from each family. Alter some; create new ones. The main thing here is to make positive memories that you can share and relive over and over, especially during rough spots when you can’t remember why you are together. Traditions can be like glue and bind you with a common past.
Sex Vs Love – Sex and love are not the same thing. Learn the difference and don’t measure love by your hormones.

Negotiator – Forget “his” and “hers” roles and who “should” do what when…Learn to negotiate. What works one day may not work another when timing is off, kids are on the run and disaster strikes, for instance, when your mother-in-law drops by unexpectedly.

Love and Hate – Love your mate. It is OK to strongly dislike (or “maybe” hate) a behavior, like cracking knuckles or biting nails. But remember to love the person.

Summary:

Information and tips on dating, relationships for women and men. Tips for women and men to take their romantic experience to a new level. Dating tips for making your online dating filled with fun and excitement.

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A Few Dating Tips For Highschoolers

High school days are those times when you go gallivanting to different worlds, trying out different things and testing your boundaries. This happens in all aspects of your life, be it in your education, your family life and your love life.

And because this is the trial period of dating so to speak, things can be pretty awkward and confusing the first few tries. And even when you get the hang of it, there will be times when you would like to just pull your hair in utter frustration.

High school dating tip #1

Desperation is uncool
A lot of teenagers think that just because nobody has asked them out or that they don’t have a steady yet, it is the end of the world as they see it. Society, being the culprit, has encouraged the perception that single people have something unsavory about them. Remember that you are just starting out. High school dating is a time of taking it slow. There really is no hurry. If you don’t feel comfortable doing it especially in engaging in sexual relationships, then don’t. It is wiser and better to wait and have your first time with someone that you really feel a deep connection with. And for sure, you will meet lots of guys in high school, in college and after.

High school dating tip #2

Be the gentleman/gentlewoman
Whether in high school, college or even after school, respect and courtesy is important. One of the primary high school dating rule is to accord respect to others as you would want others to give you. This includes respecting their decisions and not enforcing your will onto them. Know your limits whether in cracking a dirty joke or touching a person. Some people are very sensitive. Be careful lest you invade another person’s personal space.

High school dating tip #3

Don’t make it your world
Remember that you are in high school to study and to learn about life. High school dating is just one part of that world that you are starting to discover. Set your priorities straight. There are things that you should be placing more importance on.

High school dating tip #4

Get involved
One way to meet people and high school dating “mates” is to join organizations and be actively involved in school activities and events. This will not only allow you to get to know a lot of people but will also showcase and at the same time develop your talents and enhance your confidence, something that you need to be successful in high school dating.

High school dating tip #5

Be safe.
Believing that you are not safe may be a negative thought but from the hundreds of cases of teenage violence and teenage pregnancy, it is perhaps better to err in the side of caution. Being safe does not mean that you will forgo with the whole high school dating thing. You can be safe while still having the time of your life dating people you like in high school. One dating tip is to be on the look out for suspicious actions and suspicious people. If you are meeting someone for the first time, make sure that you are meeting in a public place where you can be safe in the company of a lot of people. Also, never accept food or drinks from people that you do know. The food may be laced with drugs that can make you fall asleep.

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Dating Conversation Tips

Dating conversation can be the most awkward situation a person can ever find themselves in. Stating a dating conversation is frustrating. For many people just the anticipation is enough to make them not even try to find conversation starters.

In starting a conversation while dating you are actually at an advantage because you both already have something in common - you are on a date together, at the same place, with, hopefully, the same intentions. The only thing left to do is pick one of those three things to talk about and get started.

The following section explains what types of conversation starters work best in a dating situation. These tips can help you to understand why certain topics result in better conversation.

Starting a conversation by commenting on something around you allows your date to participate in the conversation. You could make a comment about something interesting your date is wearing or about the place you are at.

Observant comments focus the conversation on something both of you can talk about and shows your date that you are at ease enough to be looking at things around you, not just focusing on yourself.

Almost everyone can appreciate a good joke. People love to laugh. It releases tension and will generally put someone at ease. Adding in a little humor to your conversation will liven things up.

It will show your date you are not afraid to laugh and you are fun to be around. Be careful of focusing too much on being funny, though. Let it come naturally.

Say something interesting or unusual. Avoid being weird, though. Catch your date off guard with something that is not a cliché. Try to go outside the box and be creative.

These three conversation starter tips will help you to start out the conversation on a good note. Plus you can avoid common problems that lead to boring conversation.

The following section gives some examples of what to say to start a dating conversation.

1. Ask if his or her day was as boring as yours.
2. Ask how he or she got their current job.
3. Ask your date if he or she has ever dreamed of living somewhere else and where and why he or she would live there.
4. Comment on the unusual décor of the restaurant.
5. Comment on a current event.
6. Ask your date if he or she has a special hobby.

Always listen attentively and do not take over the conversation. Let it flow and follow the tips and suggestions here to get your dating conversations going.

Author is running dating tips site http://www.dating-tip.org

10 Must Have Online Dating Tips

Have you ever thought of meeting people online? If so, meeting people online can be great fun. Online dating has given us the opportunity from our comforts of our own home to search for that someone.Let your common sense prevail when searching online and do not let your instincts lessen when making your decision. Please see the dating tips below which will make your search safe,a lot of fun and most importantly successful.

* Dating Tip #1

Most common form of introduction would be to say" Please Allow me to introduce myself" I use this one myself,it helps to break the ice and it is polite yet confident.

Have you ever tried to introduce yourself in a night club or a bar? I am sure you have. Do you say "Hi my name is"... my telephone number and my address is such and such... No I thought not. When you introduce yourself on http://Iwantudating.com, please use common sense and do not reveal any personal details about yourself. This is one great thing about online dating.Take as much time as you need in getting to know someone before being comfortable enough in revealing all there is to know about you. So make sure you are not pressured.

* Dating Tip #2

Do not lie about yourself on your profile. People will eventually find out you are having them on.

* Dating Tip #3

Do take the time to complete the entire profile on the registration form - Any unanswered questions say you could not be bothered or are hiding something. Try and complete the form as much as possible to let any potential contact know the real you.

* Dating Tip #4

Have you ever heard of the phrase "Honesty is the best policy" I am sure you have.Honesty is admired yet dishonesty is being disrespectful.Tell the people you are emailing your true intentions and it should be the correct path to successful dating. Always remember, that you must use your common sense and judgement.I know it is not easy to judge who you are contacting on the other side so please assess who you are being honest with.

* Dating Tip #5

Now here is good dating advice. Add a nice photo.A photo of you. A smiling photo. A smiling photo up close. A recent smiling photo up close! Make sure your photos are recent preferably less than 6 months old) and that you are happy. Members with photos are likely to get up to 9 times more replies than members without any photo image attached to their profile.

* Dating Tip #6

Do not talk or brag about your ex. There is nothing more of a turn off for people to hear about your previous relationships.Instead focus on what you already have.The past is often best forgotten.

* Dating Tip #7

Always try and reply to people's messages and reply in a reasonable amount of time, not weeks later. If you are serious about dating, you are serious about replying. They have taken the time to talk or write to you and they may be really nice.

* Dating Tip #8

Has it ever happened to you where you are talking to a stranger and you are wondering what they look like? Our brains tend to create an image in our mind of what someone might look like.It is only our natural instinct to do so.If you ever meet or met the person they did not look anything like you had in your mind? Am I right? Of Course. Unfortunately none of us are psychic so I suggest you you ask for a picture and you can feel more comfortable with whom you are emailing.

* Dating Tip #9

Always and I mean always meet your date in a mutual place during the day which both of you are comfortable with.Always advise a friend or a relative of where you are going and leave a contact number. Do not leave any Drinks unattended.Unfortunately and it must be said that we live in cruel and sick world. Please if you have an alcoholic drink then please drink moderately.

* Dating Tip #10

Be Realistic.Most fairytale stories do not have a happy ending.If they sound perfect fit , it does not necessarily mean send the wedding Invitations out yet. If this date does not work out do not worry it will not be your last first date.If it does not lead to a next date then pack your bags and move on to the next potential candidate on your list.Do not be put off.

Remember there are plenty of fish in the Sea. So make sure you choose wisely.

Norbert is the owner and the author of Dating Variety Newsletter available at http://www.iwantudating.com or http://www.datingvariety.com

Before Looking For "The One", You Need These Dating Tips!

The following are some basic, common sense safety tips to keep in mind when dating online. Here are some tips to help you succeed with online dating while protecting yourself against the predators and losers out there. Are you new to the world of online dating?

To get you started down the right road, I have written up my Top 28 Dating Tips (in no particular order). Online dating works much the same as the personals ads in a magazine, except you have a much greater flexibility. When you join an online dating service, you have much the same feeling of anticipation and excitement.

In conclusion: If you approach the online dating scene with a positive attitude while exhibiting caution and common sense, you greatly increase your likelihood of an enjoyable experience. In conclusion: Online dating is one of the greatest developments in our day and age. What if you know the url of the dating site you want, but you want to know if it caters to singles you are looking for?

Sites such as AmericanSingles in the US, and the popular AllAboutSingles out of the UK provide you extensive dating and matching tools to assist you in finding compatible matches, but if you don’t use them to your full advantage, then the tools are basically useless. With those in mind, and you armored with presence of mind and a cautious but not paranoid attitude, you'll be well set off for the goodies of single dating. Not only young people are frustrated about dating, but also the increase in divorce rates and the easiness of living overseas, creates growing circle of lonely single people who seek relationships and love.

Being too desperate over a relationship will spoil the fun of single dating life. Online dating can be fun, exciting and successful, but be safe and enjoy the process. Getting out and experiencing the world and the abundance it has to offer is wonderful, but the 21st century has also many virtual advantages that can be used to enter the dating world, without getting out of the house and risking the dangers of the cruel streets.

While cheaters, liars and frauds certainly can be very convincing on the Web, you'll also find them in nightclubs and offline dating services, parties or even sitting across from you at your local coffee house. I am talking about the Internet dating, or more specifically: online dating services or dating websites. In fact, the estimated revenue garnered by online dating services just for the first half of 2003 had reached a whopping $214.

With these facts, online dating is certainly not just the hottest thing available in the Internet today but is already a phenomenon. Summing up – dating through friends is the safest way when it comes to the person you date with, but it’s the most risky way when it comes to your personal loss. There are two ways of accomplishing this – the first way is the direct way, which means literally asking your friends to be the matchmakers and set you up on a date with one of their friends.

Even if you feel a very deep connection, you don’t have to spill your heart out on the first date. I hope the above tips will help you find a date online in a quicker and more efficient fashion. My dating tips are not rocket science, and I will not offer you 100 ways to meet your mate.

Below are some tips to guide you safely when dating. Following these tips will help you improve your dating game. There are a few guidelines that apply to online dating pictures that you should observe which will improve your profile.

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Dating Tips You Need To Know Now!

I asked my women friends this question the other day about what things they hate about men and for some dating tips and I was surprised about the response. If you’re considering online dating, whether you have recently come out of a relationship, or just haven’t found the partner of your dreams yet, one of the top dating tips is to not let worries about how you look get in the way of your future. Do you want to make sure that if you take the step to meet someone that you are not setting yourself up in a dangerous situation? Here are 5 online dating safety tips to help you avoid dangerous situations.

Lastly, if you are afraid to confront someone in real life, you always have the choice of using online dating services. If you are seriously considering getting involved in the online dating scene, visit some of the dating sites on the internet just to look around and become acquainted. At online dating sites the focus is on personalities, interests, values and so on – the type of information that helps you determine if someone’s “the one.

If you are like so many others and are growing tired of adult dating sites and meeting strangers, then checking out the backgrounds and personal information of prospective love interests on the web site. Prior to registering, however, do confirm with the dating site’s stipulations and conditions and how much of your personal data will be shown to others. If you’ve been chatting on line for a while and decide to meet up don’t forget one of the most important dating tips.

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A popular dating tip for women is to not be late. Whether you ask the guy or he asks you, one important dating tip for women is doesn’t agree to a date you know you won’t enjoy at all. When your admirers know you’re on the same page in terms of dating style, they’re more likely to take the next step and ask you out, or at least to get to know you better, confident you’ll be a great date.

Make it easy for people to ask you on a date by giving them an idea of the kind of dates you enjoy. You can't be the mousy one who simply posts a profile and waits for droves of people to send emails if you want to succeed at online dating. Variety: When dating online you have a large and broad spectrum of people to chose from.

Go out, meet new people, join different social groups, go to parties or try to do it the modern way - Online dating like Match Infinity. Online dating is very popular to many people especially for those who are looking for new friends or partner. It's well worth the extra time to find 2 or 3 dating sites that fit your personality and offer the services that you're looking for.

Perhaps the divorce rate will begin to lower as these types of Internet dating sites grow in popularity? The most popular adult dating sites according to www. While more and more 'free' dating sites are becoming available, most sites differentiate between free and paid memberships.

People who register on dating sites are everyday men and women. People who register on dating sites are not all demons or ogres. So take a decision and visit online dating direct sites.

While speed dating can lead to a potential long term match, it can also result fun and meeting many people. Online dating can be a good start for a new relationship. Physical chemistry may be nice, but it's seldom what cements a relationship.

Re-entering the singles’ world after being in a relationship for a long time is something difficult for a lot of people but always remember that you have to move on with life no matter what happens. By putting your kids interests first and having your partner go along with them, you stand the best chance of a the first meeting being a success. If you're not getting the results you're after, and your missing some of the above information in your approach a few small changes will change your success rate.

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Online Dating Tips - Why Choose Online Dating

Is it time for you to start living again? Why don't you try online dating. You have so much to gain and so little to lose. Getting back into dating can change your life. If you are conservative or have reservations regarding online dating, just read some testimonials on existing and honorable dating sites. A quick tip: find a dating review site and have the answers at your fingertips in moments so you don't have to do the research. Read on to find answers to why you should choose online dating.

If you have been alone too long, getting back into the swing of things can be intimidating. But, it is so much easier when going on online dating sites. You won't be as nervous, or shy or intimidated because you will be in the comfort your own surroundings and the first and following methods of communication will be by messages, emails, chatting.

Online dating can be free or paid, depending on the dating site you choose. Paid sites have their benefits: they deter minors and scammers (to some degree), they offer more gadgets and methods of communication within their community, among other benefits.

Opting to date the conventional has it's limits. There are only so many eligible singles looking to connect within your area or community, and who's to say that they have the same interests as you. Whereas online dating has no borders, so you are viewing and being viewed worldwide or statewide, as you choose. And, your profile states clearly the type of relationship you are searching for as well as the qualities and interests so that you are both compatible. Basically, you make your request and wait for your order to come in. It's that simple and very quick.

You can gain so much from online dating, you'll wished you'd done it sooner. It's less expensive than conventional dating as you don't even have to leave your home or get dolled up. There are no drinks to buy, or supper to pay for, just sit and surf. You will be less inhibited than you would be if going out with the intention to meet someone because you are anonymous. Even though you may have a difficult time flirting in the real world, you may find "flirting" online is a cinch as well as fun.

You will not be disappointed if you choose to register as a member with an online dating site. In comparison to old fashioned dating, online dating will save you money: have you calculated the costs of dinner and a movie? A taxi or gas to get you where you want to go? The new clothes and shoes? Manicures and pedicures? You will gain confidence, friendships and self-esteem. You will feel as though you are living again. It's exciting when you receive messages from other members you flirted with and equally exciting when someone interesting flirts with you. It is a lot like real world dating...the butterflies in the stomach happen when you find someone you like and the communication begins.

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Internet Dating Tips: A Free Internet Dating Guide

Online dating is one of the hottest subjects on the romance and relationships scene. If you have not yet dated online, chances are you know someone who has, or does. This article offers internet dating tips for beginners.

1. Look into thyself: The first mistake most online dating beginners make is to sign up with a dating site, through a friend’s recommendation, an advertisement or just blindly. Different sites, including popular sites, have certain differences. To find out which best fits your needs, you need to know what you want. What type of relationship are you seeking? What are your hobbies/passions? Knowing what you want will help narrow down the field and avoid overwhelm.

2. Set up shop: Now, it’s time to find a dating service. This is where knowing what you want gets important. If you want a serious relationship or marriage, a matchmaking service is probably the best place to go. There are also specialty dating sites that serve people who are passionate about something (dog lovers, for instance), religious dating sites for people who are serious about their faith and a whole range of dating sites for just about anything you can imagine. Not sure which way to go? Simply sign up with one of the large popular dating sites as they serve a wide range of interests.

3. Decide on a budget: Unless money is really tight, avoid free sites. Especially if seeking a serious relationship. Why? Free sites comprise all sorts of characters and personalities, with a good number of whom are not serious about finding love. Some free dating site members are really just minors who will pull pranks on poor lonely souls. Matchmaking sites will usually cost slightly than other internet personals sites, since they offer more services and features.

4. Test the water: Sign up for a free trial and see how you like the site, its features as well as quality of singles. Does offer assistance/advice in things like profile-writing and posting photos? How fast are your questions answered or emails responded to by the customer service? If a site does not have a free trial, don’t sign up. It is recommended that you sign with more than one site during the testing phase. After all, it’s free and you get to test more sites quicker.

5. Post photograph: Surveys by dating sites indicate that you are more likely to get a response when you post a photo with your personal ad. Too, most people first look at your photo before deciding whether to read on. Most dating sites allow more than one photo, but the main photo should be a head shot. And please make it a good one, of yourself, and one that looks like you today not several years ago.

6. Write a lively personal profile: No, you don’t Shakespearean prowess. Write like you talk. Be specific. Instead of saying, “I love movies” you might say something like “I hate to say this, but I waited in line all night and into the next day to just to watch the last of the Star Wars series”. Reading other peoples’ profiles and noting which ones interest you might help you build up yours.

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Dating Tips For Dating Success!

I asked my women friends this question the other day about what things they hate about men and for some dating tips and I was surprised about the response. If you’re considering online dating, whether you have recently come out of a relationship, or just haven’t found the partner of your dreams yet, one of the top dating tips is to not let worries about how you look get in the way of your future. Golf dating can be a great way to get to know a person who you may consider to be a partner in life and on the golf course.

When your admirers know you’re on the same page in terms of dating style, they’re more likely to take the next step and ask you out, or at least to get to know you better, confident you’ll be a great date. Whether you ask the guy or he asks you, one important dating tip for women is doesn’t agree to a date you know you won’t enjoy at all. If you’ve been chatting on line for a while and decide to meet up don’t forget one of the most important dating tips.

The dating scene is far from perfect and there is no magic formula with ‘one size fits all’ but with the right knowledge and armed with a collection of the most successful dating tips you stand a fighting chance. But like any dating scene there are certain tips and tricks that will make it easier for you to score.

If you are seriously considering getting involved in the online dating scene, visit some of the dating sites on the internet just to look around and become acquainted. Perhaps the divorce rate will begin to lower as these types of Internet dating sites grow in popularity? If you are like so many others and are growing tired of adult dating sites and meeting strangers, then checking out the backgrounds and personal information of prospective love interests on the web site www.

At online dating sites the focus is on personalities, interests, values and so on – the type of information that helps you determine if someone’s “the one. You can't be the mousy one who simply posts a profile and waits for droves of people to send emails if you want to succeed at online dating. Go out, meet new people, join different social groups, go to parties or try to do it the modern way - Online dating like Match Infinity.

Try this: Go to any marriage dating agency and following their procedure to join. If someone you have been dating for a while begins to exhibit changes in their level of eye contact, body posture, attention to you, availability and/or becomes restless or less communicative, pay attention. Lastly, if you are afraid to confront someone in real life, you always have the choice of using online dating services.

It's well worth the extra time to find 2 or 3 dating sites that fit your personality and offer the services that you're looking for. TIP 1 Here's what you do: Scope out the girl in the group who seems kind of shy, who's looking around for attention but can't seem to get any because her girlfriend is dancing on the tabletops or just being really loud and boisterous - and being hit on by every guy in the place. Here's the plan: Go up to a woman who's browsing meat (or looking at fruit or reading labels on laundry detergent or whatever).

Just go up to her, tell her the magazine she's reading looks interesting, or that you already read that and there's a great article in there, or (if it's a woman's magazine) that you've been tempted to read "Cosmo" or whatever it is just to see what kind of stuff those mags tell women. And one final dating tip for women (and men for that matter) is after a successful date, don’t spend all your time trying to drop a subtle hint for another date or waiting around for the phone to ring. Caroline Mackenzie is Co-Owner/Webmaster of The Dating Muse, a guide to online dating services and personals featuring reviews of the top online dating sites plus tips and ideas for finding friends, dates, soulmates and sexual adventure online.

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Dating Tips – The Ultimate Dating Advice

In the modern world everything is faster. People are used to get what they want in lesser time and in better quality.

Human interaction is decreasing hand in hand with our social skills. This is what makes dating one of the biggest problems of the modern era.

It begins with the great difficulty of meeting new people, in our small existence of school\office\home, it is hard to be exposed to novelties on a frequent basis. Even when you do come across new people, there is the indecision of how to interact with them on the initial level. Finally, after you got yourself a date, the hardest of it all is, of course, how to survive it successfully.

Not only young people are frustrated about dating, but also the increase in divorce rates and the easiness of living overseas, creates growing circle of lonely single people who seek relationships and love.

In my articles I will offer every time a new insight and advice. Starting with the initial stage of ‘how to meet new people’ and going through all the possible subjects that relate to the dating scene.

The most important thing to remember is that first of all dating is a game and therefore, should be fun. Some people treat dating as a mission to overcome or as a world that needs to be conquered. We must remember that the consequences of successful dating are mainly the bliss of having another person to be with and enjoy mutual things with; therefore the road that leads to this outcome should be equally joyous and satisfying. If at any point of the process you feel hurt, used or humiliated, there is no point in going on dating the person who causes these feelings.

On the other hand, this world requires certain qualities that are sometimes hard to obtain without practice. Remember that relationship is a game for two (or more) players, so you have to play your part in order to advance the game, but also remain attentive to the other’s moves all along the road.

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Dating Profile Tips For Those Interested In Internet Dating

In today’s society, many people want a relationship, but are too busy to take the time out to find the right person. The most common reason for this is that they work long hours at their jobs, and are too tired to go to a bar or to another social function where people might usually find dates.

As a result, people choose the increasingly more popular option of internet dating by joining various internet dating sites. Internet dating allows people to find someone on their own time, and is efficient because it can be as simple as checking e-mail, which is something many people to frequently anyway. Thus, if one is interested in joining an internet dating site, there are some important dating profile tips that one should follow.

Dating Profile Tip #1: Always Include a Photo

Internet dating is the same as real-life dating, in that people have to have a physical as well as an intellectual compatibility. Thus, when one joins a dating site, it is an important dating profile tip to include a photo, because the majority of profiles that have no photos are often overlooked. To be on the safe side, include a photo that shows only part of the face, like a side profile, or a photo that has the person wearing sunglasses.

Dating Profile Tip #2: Never Include Personal Information

This might seem like an obvious one, but it is important that a dating profile never include personal information like the address, telephone number, or even the last name of a person. While some internet dating sites are quite secure in guarding against internet predators, others are not. To be on the safe side, identifiable information should always be left off of a dating profile.

Dating Profile Tip #3: Be Truthful

The point of internet dating is that people have that electronic buffer for a certain amount of time, and when they feel that they are comfortable with each other they meet in real life. Too many people think that the only way they can attract people is by putting up false, but interesting information about themselves, and pictures that are attractive, but sometimes not even of that person. Always be truthful in a dating profile, because the right person will be attracted for truthful reasons, not false ones.

To find a reputable dating site, search the internet for various site reviews. Also, look for commercials on television of dating sites that have real couples telling their stories, not actors. It should be noted that the more secure and reputable dating sites will charge a monthly fee. Regardless of the fee, with the proper research, one is sure to find the right dating website that will allow them to safely embark upon a fun relationship.

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Free Dating Website – Tips to a Successful Online Dating

After choosing a free dating website, the first step is to prepare a killer profile to place on the web site. It's important to remember some key factors when creating the profile so that it says what you want it to say.

Your picture

The picture is the first knowledge other members on the free dating website have of you and your personality. You should choose your picture carefully and upload it to the website. Make certain that the picture you select is one that reflects your personality and perhaps shows the type of activities you like to participate in. If you are a hang glider enthusiast and have a picture of yourself showing you excited about an upcoming launch, use it. A candid shot well composed is far better than a formal studio photograph which can often look too posed.

Subject

Your profile for the free dating website should be on target for what you are trying to express about your personality. You can look at other profiles to get an idea of what attracts you. Take time to think about what you want to express and how best to say it. Polish the information so that it excels in both quality of construction but creative presentation. Make sure you don't use the profile as a forum for your life history or your social misfortunes grocery list. Stay focused on the purpose of the profile which is to explain who you are in a way that others will want to know you better.

What attracts men?

On a free dating website, you will find men who are attracted by any number of different things, just as in the real world. Appearance counts, of course, so make certain to place your most attractive yet natural photo with your profile. Beyond that, express your personal interests and personality honestly and creatively and the men will be attracted. Because the site is free, there are more likely to be more members to be attracted, no matter what your profile expresses of your personality.

What attracts women?

Women are attracted by honesty, sensitivity and the ability to share a moment. Women searching the profiles on a free dating website will look at the photos, but they may be less important than the written part of the profile that describes your personality. Just as in real life, almost any statement about people's dating likes and dislikes is an over generalization. However, look to be honest about your personality, sensitive to other's feelings and the ability to listen to what others are saying. There is no point in constructing an artificial personality--it won't hold up to closer inspection.

What to avoid

When preparing your profile for a free dating website, there are certainly things that you should avoid. The first and probably most important thing to avoid is dishonesty. Don't misrepresent your age, gender, wealth, or anything else about you. Don't use someone else's picture, no matter how beautiful or attractive they are. Don't structure your likes and dislikes in hopes of attracting a particular person. For example, don't say you love children to attract a widower with three children if you have no desire to be an instant mother. Avoid poorly written, misspelled or grammatically incorrect profiles. Anyone can get a short profile punctuated, spelled and correctly written with some effort.

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Dating Rules For Men – Hot Dating Tips To Win Her Heart

There are dating rules for men every red-blooded male ought to live by. Not only will these dating rules for men ensure your lady friend has an enjoyable evening, but they will also save you the embarrassment of committing dating faux pas later on. So before you thrust yourself head-on into the exciting and unpredictable world of dating, read on.

Dress to kill. Okay, maybe not quite, but do dress to impress. Throw on something decent and suitable for the occasion. A tux on a first date seems hardly appropriate, while too rugged a look may be off-putting. Play it safe and go neutral. Smart casual is a good choice. Then work your way from there should the two of you decide to keep dating and are more comfortable with each other’s personal tastes.

Be hygienic. Sort out your tangled hair and get a decent haircut if time allows it. Go to good quality shops for decent cologne and a grooming kit. It can be time-consuming; but men are always criticized if they smell bad, so try to get into a regular shower routine so you can smell wonderful afterwards. A woman appreciates that.

Strive to improve at work as well. A man with ambition is appealing to women. Try to get some direction in your life. Get yourself on track with career opportunities. Women will question you about prospects at your work so you cannot pretend it is not important.

Try to be more mature. Getting your brain well fed is a plus. Humor is appreciated, but a woman prefers maturity. Do not let your love for sports be more of a priority than your lady. Millions of women love sports, but ramming your love for it down her throat is not advisable. Many women are not interested about current gaming consoles, they may be more interested in traveling and how you think about the outside world.

Limit yourself if you drink too much booze. Being a drunken party-boy will never leave a positive impression with your date. If you happen to be a smoker, reduce the times you smoke; or better yet, quit smoking altogether.

Do not be aggressive on the first date. This is a horrible way to think. Being patient will lead you to the girl of your dreams. Learn to wait and try to find other ways where you can make a connection with your date. This is probably the most important dating rule for men.

A woman loves a man with brains. Having basic manners, chivalry and courtesy attracts women. They love to be treated with respect. Avoid bad language, laziness and rudeness. Know how to be a gentleman who knows how to act properly with manners. Holding a door open for her is simple, yet women know it takes effort on your part. Be sensitive. Showing her a lot of respect is a great step forward.

Listen more; talk less. If it seems like you are ignoring her, her ego might get hurt. Try to listen to her when she speaks, women appreciate it if they know you are paying attention.

Here’s a unique dating rule for men: learn how to dance. Many women love to dance, so even if you have no dancing talent, at least give your best effort. Think of dancing as a romantic and sexy activity. It does not matter if you dance badly - at least she is dancing with you rather than with someone else.

Learn these dating rules for men by heart and you’ll win hers before the night is over.

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Meet Attractive Women Through Becoming Observant

In order to become more observant, your mindset needs to be this: everything you see you need to look at with a child-like curiosity. Look at everything like you’ve never seen it before.

The way you need to live life is to walk through a neighborhood every single day like you’ve never been there before. Every day you walk through that neighborhood, notice new things. Notice new buildings. Notice the color of the sky. Notice the new trees in springtime. Notice the new buds coming up. Notice everything you can possibly notice.

What happens is that this is tuning you to your environment. You can even do this on your way to work. If you walk to work, you can do this then. You can notice the cars, notice the way people walk, notice the way people are dressed. What happens is that you start training your mind.

What comes next is going into stores: let’s say you go into a Starbucks and you see someone you are attracted to. Have that same child-like curiosity. There’s someone standing next to you that you’re attracted to and you want to talk to them. You can look at the big menu board up there, the caramel machi-frattos and all that other junk, and you stand there and it’s called ‘throwing words to the wind.’ You project your voice so that the other person can hear it.

You never want to speak low or softly; you want to project your voice. When you project your voice, you can basically look up, throw those words out, and say, “god I was wondering, what’s good here?”

Immediately the person standing next to you will answer – everybody likes to pretend that they know it all. So she’ll answer, and there’s a conversation starter for you.

Everywhere you go, you can use the “I am wondering” or “I’m curious” method of reading people.

Let’s say you’re at a gas station, and you’re pumping gas into your car. Someone is standing next to you, and they’ve got this great Audi. “I’m curious, do you like your car? I was thinking of maybe getting one of those one day.” Whether or not you just bought your car or you didn’t – it doesn’t matter, you can still say that.

So be curious about everything. If you go to the Apple store – which is a place that a lot of people go – you’re looking at the iPods. You pick up the 70 GB iPod and say, “god, I’m wondering: do you think anybody ever fills up this thing with music?” The person will answer, “well, yeah, I have all this music…”

The most important thing you need to do is to look at everything in the world just like a child. You have the wonderment of a child, and you look at the world as if it was the first time you’ve ever been there.
Become and embrace that inner child.

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5 Tips to Get Your Ex Back Soonest Possible

When you are going through a breakup, the stress from it can take so much out of you. It doesn't matter if you are trying to get up in the morning, doing things that seem normal or working to get your ex's heart back. Everything can seem unfeasible to deal with. However, no matter where you are at in this breakup stage, you can make it a bit easier on yourself. What do you need to accomplish this? You need a good plan and the right attitude. Having these things can make those goals a little easier to achieve. Before you know it you aren't working to get your ex's heart back, you'll already have it.

There are 5 tips for you to utilize if you want to get your ex's heart back.

Makeup Tip Number (1) - Try to work past your pain. If you let it get to you, you let it ruin your chances. Instead of drowning your sorrows in ice cream and rerun television, call some friends up and go out on the town with them. If you are surrounded by people who love and care for you, you can be a lot happier with that pain being gone or shoved out of the way. It doesn't matter if you are winning back your ex or not.

Makeup Tip Number (2) - Try to avoid drinking alcohol when you are out with your friends. Alcohol is just a fleeting solution to the bigger problem: your pain. It can also loosen you up just a bit. However, when you are depressed and loneliness as set in, alcohol can lower your inhibitions thus creating an opportunity for you to ruin your chances at getting your ex back.

Makeup Tip Number (3) - Use a month long period of no contact to give one another some space. Use this time to figure things out. For you, this one month period can be used to recover from the sting of being dumped and coming up with some sort of plan to get him or her back. For your ex, the time away is good for him or her to realize how much they miss you. If you have to see each other all the time through work or class, you can't spend time apart and heal.

Makeup Tip Number (4) - For many people, breaking up leads them to think with their heart when they clearly should follow their head. If you let your emotions manage your decisions, you place yourself on a way to being alone. Your initial impulse may be to tell your ex how much you love him or her or that you will always be there for them. What you are doing by doing this is alienating them. Your heart should be set aside when you decide on what to do. Use your mind to guide your thoughts and feelings especially if you want to get your ex back.

Makeup Tip Number (5) - Try to prepare yourself with the notion that the relationship just doesn't have what it takes to work out but that doesn't mean you should easily give up. While there is that chance to get him or her back, there is always the possibility they do not feel the same about you. Should it look as if they moved on, then you need to go your own way and let them live their life.

With these 5 tips, you still have a chance to get your ex's heart back. However, you need to realize that not all things will work out as you plan.

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Dating safety tips

It's a jungle out there, and sometimes it's tricky to balance safety with having a life and enjoying it. On the one hand, you don't want to put yourself at risk unnecessarily, but on the other hand, you don't want to be ruled by fear. This is particularly important when you're dating. No one wants to think the worst of someone they're interested in dating, but there are bad people out there you need to watch out for. Here are a few tips for staying safe and sound in the dating arena.

Inform someone before you go. Make sure that prior to your date, you tell someone else what your plans are. Whether it seems melodramatic or not, you're better off safe than sorry. It doesn't have to be a notarized minute-by-minute plan. Simply mention to a friend or relative where you plan to go, and with whom.

Meet your date there. That way you've got your own transportation so you can leave at any time you wish. Driving separately makes it necessary for you and your date to spell out your plans and have a firm idea what is going on. It also rules out sudden, strange side trips that you weren't expecting.

Take protection. There's nothing like a can of mace or pepper spray in a pocket or purse. No one is saying you'll need to use it. But better to have it and not need it, than need it and not have it, right? The other person doesn't have to know it's there.

A crowd is your friend. Stick to public places full of people. This one is so important, it is recommended on nearly every matchmaking and online dating site. Once you scope out the other person and are sure they're solid, then you can move on to cozy dates in private places where you can snuggle up. But for that first few dates, especially the very first date, a busy locale is definitely better. The reason is very simple: predators and crazies can't easily attack you in a well-lit place with dozens of other people close by.

Play get-to-know-you before you date. If at all possible, learn something about the person before you meet. Even if it's done through e-mail or phone calls, you can lay a lot of groundwork. Not only will you have some idea who they are and what to talk about, you'll have a good idea whether the other person is on the level. If, when getting to know them, there are warning flags or something doesn't seem right, refuse to meet them anywhere. It's that simple.

A good date understands safety measures. Someone who is genuine and has your best interests at heart will understand about safety issues and cooperate willingly. If they start complaining about reasonable safety steps (such as meeting each other in a public place), find out why. Think twice about meeting them. Don't worry about appearing rude. Tell the truth: you're uncomfortable about meeting them. How they respond to that may tell you all you need to know.

Don't forget your cell phone. It's true that talking on a cell phone all night ruins a date, but don't be tempted to leave yours at home. You never know who you're going to need to call, or when. You can always turn the ringer off, or simply refuse to answer incoming calls, but make sure you have it with you.

None of these measures is going to mark you as a paranoid weirdo; it's perfectly reasonable to want to know where you're going and what you'll be doing. It's not out of line to ask to meet in a public place, either. These days it's fairly standard procedure. Following these suggestions won't guarantee a perfect date, but it should help you have a safe one.

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Tips on How to Get a Girl to Like You Today

Let’s face it getting the girl of your dreams to actually give you the time of day can be harder than running with the bulls in Spain but sometimes just as painful!

But once you have found a woman that you can just not forget about, it’s time to start a campaign to not only get her to notice you but also to give you the time of day. Figuring out how to get a girl to like you doesn’t have to be as hard to master as biophysics and can be done far more quickly!

First, you need to have a ground work to build a relationship with this woman. If she doesn’t know you very well, you’ll need to make an impression on her a good and positive impression. Find common ground or hang out with her outside of a dating kind of setting. Let her really get to know the real you and you’ll be well on your way to setting a date.

Next, flirt like crazy but in a very genuine way. This isn’t the time for cheesy clichés or insincere compliments. Only pay her a compliment if it’s sincerely meant and not over the top.

And once you have made the compliment, move on and simply let it stand. She’ll appreciate your appreciation and won’t become embarrassed because you’re making a big deal out of her. When flirting, avoid making comments that are double entendres. Instead, simply let her know that all of your attention is on her and she is the most fascinating creature around.

Going forward, you’ll need to show her that you are seriously interested in her. One way to indicate interest is to gently touch her when you’re spending time together. Reach out to touch her arm or sleeve to emphasize a point. Put an arm around her back when walking together. Gently touch her knee while watching an event together. All of these actions show your interest as well as your romantic side.

To further show how romantic you are, do silly things like placing a flower in her hair or giving her a simple present “just because” that reminds you specifically of her. Learn what she loves and work that into the conversation or what plans you make when hanging out. This is both sweet and romantic and shows that you are well on your way to learning how to get a girl to like you.

Finally, once you’ve laid all of the groundwork, it’s time to seal the deal. Laying the groundwork can sometimes take only a short amount of time, especially if you already know each other well. On the other hand, if you are new acquaintances, it can take a bit of time.

But when the time is right and your relationship is getting closer, it’s time to ask her out. Learning how to get a girl to like you is as simple as mixing your genuine personality with a bit of patience and then reaping the results!

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Seduction and dating tips

Seducing women requires either natural skill or a strategy. There are many skills that you need to learn to become a master of seduction. Just like any other subject you need to learn and practice to become a proficient seducer. Some good tips to get you started thinking about seducing a woman and making her feel a deep attraction to you are below.

You must master the art of body language learning as much about nonverbal communication as you can. This is the foundation of an effective seduction strategy. Learn how to read a woman's body language and you can know what she is feeling or what she wants just by paying attention to her gestures. Her posture, smile, hand gestures , facial expressions and eyes are as if not more important than her words and belie her true feelings. Understanding a woman's body language, will help you master the seduction process.

Be self confident, dont be affraid to approach her. By reading her nonverbal signals correctly you will know when the time is to do this. Confidence is a big draw for a woman so if you learn to control your body language enough to exude confidence then you are over half the battle. If you are shy you must break out of your shell and be more confident in yourself. Step out of your comfort zone and work on overcoming your shy nature.

Do not give out too much information too early. The cliche of the dark and mysterious men capturing womens hearts is not far wrong so make her want to know more about you and be spontaneous to keep her guessing.

Talk to her with confidence and stay calm during your conversations. Your voice is key so speak slowly and deeply. Practice and learn to use your voice more effectively. Studying NLP (neuto linguistic programming) can be of great benefit both in mastering your own mind and making what you say more effective.

Be light-hearted and have fun. Remeber, smile!, make her laugh with your amazing sense of humour. You dont want to be too much of a comedian but show off your wit when you interact with her. Your charming personality and sense of humour will charm them off their feet and there are good reasons for the saying "laugh them into bed".

When you have mastered these key seduction skills , reading her body language correctly, having self confidence when you approach her, speaking with confidence and the sexiest tonality you can manage whilst keeping an air of mystery and fun you'll be able to seduce any woman.

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How To Make The Second Date More Successful Than The First One

You know her partially. She just has a slight idea of who you really are. I believe you did not let her all on the first date. Its time to give it a second shot. Depending on the way you would like your relationship to be or go, u got to be prepared. First, review your first date in order to cultivate a starting point for the second date. Did thing go your way, or was everything a surprise? Did she play hard to get or was she willing? This is a second chance, to make up for the blunders, if any. Time to go for the second date. You already made your first impression, because you will never get a second chance to make that. Its time to present the second phase of who you really are. Be the boss, this time. Make her feel comfortable and assure her of security. It is advisable to be different from the previous time – if you were official the previous date, make sure you meet in a casual setting. This should tell you much about the girl you are dating.

It is often taken that the date has to order during the first and the second date. Too often, if you let her order – and especially if you ask her to, she will be exorbitant. Make the order according to your budget, but involve her in deciding on what to take. Something like; how would you like it if i ordered for wine? or I haven’t taken beer for so long, help me to recall. Don’t forget to use the word dear on the second date she may not take a big note of it. This softens a spot in her heart. Before the order comes, engage her in a nice talk, about the work place – if you share some interests in that field, places, but desist from talking about family and people. Once your delivery is made, talk about food. Talk big appetite. Don’t talk of what you don’t like. It could be her best and she will hate you. Enough of warm-up!

As you wait for the dessert, its time for THE TOPIC. The million dollar question which is off course expected during the second date. It should be as simple as; "I forgot to compliment you on your hair. You look great". As she shyly says ‘thank you’, take note of the dimples. It goes all the way. She is flattered. Its only after the dessert that you should introduce the issue at hand. Do not put it so seriously in a matter of fact manner.

The best way is to pass the point with a light touch and humor in it. If the reception is not good it saves your face. You did not really mean it. If the response is positive and encouraging, take the cue. This means your second date can lead to countless ones to follow there after. Do not stare at her in brazen manner, neither should you stare at your food all the time, or at the beautiful women passing by. Maintain eye contact. Have reservations and avoid acts that might be misinterpreted. For instance it is not yet time to start holding her hand. If she makes the first bold step to touch your hand, take it cool. It is a sign of good times to come.

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Why I Say That Interracial Dating Is Fun

Do you think skin color is a barrier when it comes to dating? Do not think along those lines. She has everything a man would only dream his woman had. She is a beauty queen, a woman who is in a class of her own. She is ahead of the pack in terns of elegance, grace and beauty. Pay a blind eye to the color bar, see the woman. The essence of her heart is what matters, the color of her skin is secondary. We are all one people with different colors, interracial dating is healthy and possible. We all have the same needs and desires in life hence the visible differences are man made. We have created and erected barriers around our tribal cocoons in order to entrench our own selfish interests. If she is your dream person love her in abundance. Throw all caution and care to the wind and follow your heart. Let the world make the conclusions it wants to make but by the end of the day you have achieved your goal.

Interracial dating brings diversity to the relationship. This particular diversity can either be an advantage or a disadvantage to the relationship. It brings with it deep rooted differences such as religion, culture, food, beliefs and the general perception of things. It is possible to work out your differences to a compromise. There is nothing in this world today that can not be discussed and solved. In an interracial dating relationship the two lovebirds should work together towards accommodating each other into their different worlds. A lot of understanding, patience and resilience ought to be invested in this relationship in order for things to work out pretty fine. This investments should be long term and geared towards making the relationship grow from strength to strength.

Diversity is strength, let your relationship be a melting pot of cultures. Do not try to change your partner from whom she is to the person that you want her to be. It might not be taken kindly. In the long run change is inevitable, it takes time. Let this change take its natural course. Let it stand the test of time. Let it adopt to the environment. You will eventually change much as your partner will also change. You will start seeing things the same way and reading from the same script when it comes to opinions. All this is subject to time and calls for patience and resilience even in times of adversity. Give interracial dating a chance because it is all that is required. It will prosper and gain root to eventually attain levels you have never imagined before. In the long run you will wonder where all the differences and conflicts you had anticipated have gone to.

Dating is dating, whether interracial dating or not. It does not matter the race or skin co lour of that person. Understand your partner, share in her dreams, goals and desires. Be her pillar of support. Be the tender, caring and loving man she has always dreamt of. Avoid areas and topics that might bring you into a line of conflict. Especially those that stem from her background. With the rough edges of your differences ironed out you can enjoy marital bliss till kingdom come.

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Advice on Dating: Your Date Is Not Your Ex

Your date was quiet all the way home but you could feel the anger. This is the fourth time they have gone out with you. They have indicated very clearly that they like you and want to know you better. They do not know if the two of you have a future together but they have made every concerted effort to try and find out.

That is until tonight. They have come to the conclusion that they just cannot take it anymore. Every date so far no matter how it starts always ends the same way. The conversation with out fail comes back to your ex.

When you date says something it reminds you of that time your ex said the exact same thing. When you date laughs it is so reminiscent of how your significant other guffaws. The way they wear their hat or sip their tea brings back all of those memories of your ex and unfortunately you share that information with your current date.

No wonder they are not speaking to you. That changes when you drop them off in front of their house. They tell you in no uncertain terms that they do not appreciate you singing the blues about your past relationship. If you want to carry a torch find but do not expect them to help you keep the flame burning. They did not sign on for that and in reality neither did you. Whether you admit it or not the bottom line is you went out with this person to get a fresh start.

Therefore it is important to give yourself, your date and and your ex a break for a few reasons:

1. It's Over

Why are you dating this new person? Because your relationship with your ex is over. Either go forward with your dating life or make the effort to get your ex back. But understand you cannot have both. Accept the fact that it is over and reintroduce yourself to the dating community.

2. It's Boring

Besides resenting the fact that your ex is taking up their time, your dating partner is going to grow tired of this quicker than you realize. The truth is they have gone out with you multiple times which shows you how they feel about you but their patience is not unlimited and neither is their attention span. Going on and on about your ex is either an invitation to end the date prematurely or watch them doze off.

3. Self Sabotage

If you feel you are not ready to date than do not date. There is nothing wrong with taking time off to get yourself together before deciding to reconnect with the dating scene. Going out there knowing that your main focus is still on your ex is asking for trouble in the short and long term.

4. Shoe Meet Other Foot

Think about it. You start talking about you ex and then your date start talking about their ex. Next thing you know four people are double dating but only two are sitting at the table. That makes things a little crowded including not having time to reconnect with each other because you are spending so much time trying to relive memories. Needless to say if your date was the only one talking about their ex, it would not take you long to get very tired of it and them

You had great times with your ex but for whatever reason the two of you are not together anymore. Be thankful for the good times you shared but do not romanticize the entire relationship. The fact is that meeting and dating someone new means the relationship has the potential to equal or surpass what you previously enjoyed. You owe it to yourself to make the most of it.

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Relationship Advice To Get Your Ex Back Easily

Relationships are extremely fragile bonds that have to be continuously nurtured for them to flourish. Each and every person who is committed in a relationship has the complete responsibility to provide value to the other person in order to create a natural balance. When this natural balance is disturbed, problems begin to occur in the relationship. A relationship that is not balanced will eventually dissolves, leaving one of the sides still hopeful of resolving the issues. It is not easy to be the only person who is working to resolve the things. However, there are various ways which can be helpful in winning over the dreariest situations.

Be Strong

Desperate behavior, clinging or begging should most definitely be avoided as it would do nothing but repel your lost love, not attract them. It is a well known fact that 'no-one needs the needy". You have to prove to yourself as well as to the world that you are capable of boldly facing the toughest of times.

Reduce Contact

Closing all doors of communication is an extremely important step in getting your ex back in your life. Though it may seem to be counter-opposite, but is quite necessary. Everyone needs a break and some time for reflecting on themselves and on the relationship. It would also give sufficient time to your ex to think and evaluate the relationship and remind them of the value of your relationship.

Go Out

Don´t be alone after a breakup. Go out and enjoy with your friends. You need to keep yourself occupied with other things and indulge in self realization.

Be Yourself

Remember that you and your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend were together due to a reason. Think about the first few weeks or months and what made them special, and analyze how different it is from the present. Relationships often fall apart when they become monotonous or incompatible. Therefore, try to accentuate those qualities which your ex appreciated in you.

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This Advice Is Essential For Any Senior Adult In Senior Online Dating

A variety of people meet online all the time. One of this groups of people are the senior. Today, you will find very many senior online dating sites. They guarantee members of great matches. One of the most common site is the above sixty dating site. This site as the name suggests, finds matches for seniors above sixty. Love is not for the young alone. This statement could not be more true. If you are a senior who is frustrated because you have been single for a long time, get over your sadness. You do not have to be lonely. Take the first step and, take advantage of this easy way. Senior online dating sites have managed to bring people together in the name of love. It is vital to know the kind of site you are looking for. This means that you need to know the kind of services you sign up for. For example, the following are the benefits that you will enjoy when you subscribe to the above sixty site. You will enjoy free membership for six months. As a senior, you have no excuse not to take advantage of this. You will also get to send messages as well as virtual kisses. You also get to send ice breakers. If this sounds like a good plan, visit the site today and join. You have everything to gain. Some seniors feel shy to start the process and, this is not uncommon.

For a person who has not been on a date for a long time, you are bound to feel very low about senior online dating. Various sites will provide information on this. This information will contain tips of how to start dating. First, some tips I came across are on low self esteem and how to overcome it. Negativity will always bring you down. Therefore, the first thing you do is to have a positive approach not only to dating but, to life in general. Many seniors wait for life to take shape on its own. This will not help and, you need to stand up and take charge of your life again. Tell yourself that you deserve to be happy; that you deserve good things. This kind of reassurance to oneself will jump start your zeal for life and dating. You gain confidence by doing this all the time you feel low. Soon you will be surprised to discover that you feel better about yourself and, that you are ready to share and spread the love. The next step is to look for an ideal site. The above analysis of a good site will guide you to doing this. Know what you want in a partner. This bit is vital to ensure you get your pick. The easy process of registration will make you a candidate of love.

From this stage, you can expect results from a diversity of people. You will discover that senior online dating brings you back to the years when you were full of life. Some people have stated that you are wiser and more sensitive as a senior looking for love. This can only work to your advantage.

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