Bitten by the "Cougar Bug"

Hi Lucia,

I met a flight attendant last year.  We only spent an evening together, but she left a lasting impression on me.  I am 21 and she was fifteen years older.  Since then I have not been able to get over the difference between her and the other women I have dated.  I have decided to only date older women from now on, at least for a while. I've just had it with those silly college girls. My question: where do I start?  The oldest women in my circle of friends are maybe three to six years older than me. I want to meet more in their thirties and forties.  Martin

Hi Martin,

You've been bitten by the "Cougar bug"!  You may think you'll be able to do it "for a while" but you will probably find it difficult to go back to women your age or younger.

Urbancougar.com offers 3 ways to meet Cougars.   Check out the Cougar Den section, to see where the older women in your city are hanging out.  You can also sign up for the free community, which has members all over the world.  Finally, sign up on Cougar dating site The Cougar Connection.