How Often to Call When Dating

What is so difficult about picking up the receiver and dialing a number? If only calling the person whom you are dating is as easy as calling your mum! How often you should call when dating is a very tricky question. Some would consider that it is best to call their date frequently while others think otherwise. There is no verdict to this, but keep these tips in mind and you can be assured of a happy relationship ahead.

Both men and women have different opinions when it comes to picking up the phones to call each other. Women in general love to talk, hence it is not a wonder that they would expect the guys the call and check on them. This is in comparison with guys who tend to be less expressive. Most women would not hesitate to talk to the person she is interested in on frequent basis. Since guys don’t really fancy phone calls, does this mean that guys are excused when they don’t call the girls they are dating?

The number one rule to dating is never to call each other every single day. Allowing a time lapse of 3 days would be good, more often that not, doing so will create some kind of sexual tension. If she calls you even before you get to call her, it means that she is dying to hear your voice. Even a simple hello would definitely mean something.

Men in general do not really enjoy long frequent chitchats on the phone. So if you are wondering why your conversations are only 5 minutes long, this explains why. This also shows that men and women view the telephone very differently. Girls, just remember not to get upset when your guy says that he has to go and end the phone call abruptly.

Some girls might play hard-to-get and would eventually ignore your phone calls too. So, if she didn’t call you back, maybe it is time to make your first move and start calling her. She might ignore those phone calls, hence use the answering machine and drop her a nice message. Remember, she also needs to look graceful enough for you. Calling the guy back will make her look desperate and lonely, and as such, do not expect a speedy reply from her.

Giving each other space and time is definitely encouraged. Girls might get a tiny bit overprotective over certain things, and tend to call their dates so frequent that it becomes increasingly annoying. Be practical about it and allow your date to have some time alone too.

Phone calls are a great way to cure your loneliness and longing for that special someone. But overdoing it will just make you look desperate and in fact it will just scare your date. The best is just to let nature take its course and pray that you would not have to be the first one to make the phone call after the date.

Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Find out how to call a woman to ask her out. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.

The Best Text Lesson Ever

Hope everyone is having an amazing weekend.

Yesterday we went to Malibu and everyone had a task at hand.
To have fun like a kid and overcome all fears of approaching women.

It was a huge success and the task was something you would have never imagined.

I will post some of it this week on you tube so stay tuned…..you will be shocked at what we did.

Today we are heading to the Santa Monica Farmers market as well as Venice beach. Till tomorrow.

Today I want to share with everyone a great question I got from someone in an email. I’m sure this kind of stuff is applicable to many of you who are talking on the internet, so let’s talk about this right now.

Client: Hi David. First of all, I’d like to take a second to kiss your ass for opening a whole new world to me. Basically, your Men’s Mastery Series and blogs are amazing, but I’m sure you already know this, so on with my question.

Last I was IMing a girl that I met through a friend and eventually started talking to through MySpace. It was the second time I have talked to her through AIM and I was planning on getting her number so I could ask her out over the phone (as you recommend.)

As we were talking about boring things, she put me in the position to compliment her. Don’t get me wrong: I love to compliment someone when it is deserved, but it was just so blatantly obvious. I felt like I was giving all of my power away.

Here is one example of our conversation:
Her: So are you actually going to get some work done tonight?
Me: I’ll try, but some crazy girl keeps IMing me… haha.
Her: So why don’t you just ignore her?

So now the nice guy inside wants me to say, “because I really enjoy talking to you,” but that just feels too clingy. Plus, I’m not sure if she still views me just as a friend or as someone she is actually interested in. So I just ended up saying, “nah.”

How would you have handled the situation?

David: Tim, I agree with you: it’s best to give compliments when they are deserved. However, in the example you sent me, it looks like you are the one who really put yourself in that situation.

Don’t worry so much about whether or not you give your power away (just don’t do it constantly), but focus more on keeping the vibe fun, playful and exciting. That’s the real art of flirting.

So in your situation, there are multiple ways you could have handled it. You could:

1. Call her out on it

2. Ignore it and give a very open-ended/vague and neutral answer – basically circling around the pot – this creates some form of intrigue

3. Give her an answer that makes her want to know more – using curiosity/intrigue

4. Give her a “conditional compliment”

So here’s how your situation could have played out:

Her: So are you actually going to get some work done tonight?

Me: I’ll try, but some crazy girl keeps IMing me… haha.

Her: So why don’t you just ignore her?

Me:

1. Hmmmm… I think someone is fishing for a compliment here… :p :p :p

2. [yes, just give a smiley face. Do not answer... and let her ask another question]

3. Well, I don’t know what it is… but… there’s something about this girl that makes me want to talk to her more. [you give her the compliment but you keep it vague to keep your power]

4. Because for a lawyer [insert whatever stereotype she is], she’s pretty fun [insert the opposite quality expected from the stereotype]

I hope these suggestions help you. As you can see, you are just vibing based on what she tells you. Your “nice guy” response would be fine as well as long as you come from a position of power and self-respect. The woman can tell from the OVERALL conversation if you are you just trying to please her or if you truly mean what you tell her.

That’s more important that the exact response you give to the woman fishing for compliments. There’s nothing wrong with giving free compliments once in a while – you just can’t come from the wrong place.

Contact me again if you have any more questions. If you want me to go deeper with something, we can set up some form of phone or email coaching.

Have a great weekend!

If you have any questions at all please send them my way and I will use them in newsletters in the future.

I really enjoying hearing from all of you!

Hailed on Fox News, The LA Times, The NY Times, Playboy and more… Legendary Dating Coach Launches a New Revolution For over nearly 20 years David Wygant has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. (http://www.davidwygant.com)

How To Get The Most Effective Dating Tips For Men

It is not a secret that guys and girls often see things differently. That differing perspective can often leave guys single. When a guy cannot relate to a girl, he is not going to be able to find that special someone to spend the rest of his life with, or even the night with. That is why guys are starting to usedating tips for men in order to learn things that will help them learn to relate to the opposite sex.

Services that offer dating tips for men can help guys build up their self confidence. This can be necessary for shy guys that cannot seem to even talk to women. By building up their confidence, they will finally be able to approach a woman. This is an important step for guys to learn.

Guys can also learn how to make a woman feel amazing. Many women complain that guys do not do enough to make them feel good about themselves. Often, the only problem is that guys do not know what they should do. That is why it can be very important for guys to learn the techniques needed to make women feel good.

Dating tips for men can also include ways for guys to approach women. Many guys do not have a good approach. They choose an approach that is clichéd, and women do not like that at all. It is important for guys to find ways to approach women that are natural if they want to get results.

Guys also need to learn the personality traits that make a guy attractive to a woman. By finding out what the traits are, guys are able to accentuate that part of their personality in order to get more women to go out with them.

Appearance is also something that guys need to think about. If a service can teach them how to improve their appearance in ways that women will like, that is an important thing to learn. It can help guys find more women, as they will be much more attractive to women in general.

Possibly most importantly, dating tips for men should include the things that guys should never, under any circumstances, say to a woman. There are a range of things that guys should avoid saying. If guys do not know what those things are, a night out can end up being disastrous. Many times, the main problem that guys have with women is that they do not know how to communicate. They are not aware that there are certain things that will keep a woman from answering any calls.

Dating Tips for Men offers all of these things and more. They have a service that teaches confidence, as well as how to make women feel amazing. They give advice on how to approach women, and they help guys show off their most attractive personality traits to women. The company also teaches their customers the things that they should never say to a woman. For more information, visit them online at http://www.datingtipsformen.com.

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9 Tips To Double Your Dating Results

If you feel that the magnet inside you is dwindling and it is only getting more and more difficult for you to attract the opposite sex, it is time you took stock of the situation and learnt how to do things in a better way. Here are some tips for you to double your dating results.

1. Do you listen more or talk more when you are dating a new person? If you are doing either of these, the date may turn out to be a bummer. What you must really do is to maintain a balance between your talking and your listening. That way you get to know each other and it really works.

2. Are you a very anecdotal kind of person? If you are, it makes for good conversation, but too much of anecdotes are an impediment to dating. They don't allow you to be personal. Instead, you must talk about each other.

3. Learn how to dress for your date. You shouldn't dress down or dress too fancifully. At the same time, you shouldn't dress too formal. Dress the way you normally dress. That way the other person will see you and not your clothes, and it will not disappoint them on the second date when you will definitely not dress as meticulously as on your first.

4. The location that you decide should be a mutual choice. If any one partner's will prevails, it is unfair on the other and the entire date will end up in failure.

5. Do not try a lot to impress the other person or to agree to whatever they are saying without meaning it yourself. This might show you as a person without a mind of his or her own.

6. Each person is different. This date is different from your previous one. You are different from your date. Considering the other person's point of view is necessary during the initial dates, even if you don't put your own views about it.

7. Keep your cell phone off during your date. A phone ringing at the most inopportune moment and taking you away from your date is the best way to ruin the whole show.

8. Do not talk work, but ask what the other person does. If they ask you about it, just broach the subject without going in detail. If this date works out, there will be lot of time to discuss work later on.

9. Do not go by the rules all the time. There are no dating rules. You might refer to some books like the Double Your Dating eBook available on the Internet, but you must make sure you do not stick to it letter by letter. You must use your own intuition throughout the dating process.

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Do You Desire A Soulmate?

I have wanted to write this blog for so long, I really have. And I know that each of you is going to either completely agree with me on this or totally disagree. And those of you that disagree with me are going to be so pissed – I can feel it already! As you’re reading this you’re wondering why you are going to be pissed at me, and I’ll tell you why in a second.

I’m about to tell you something that is just going to blow you away:

Soulmates are bullshit.

Here’s the thing – before you get your panties in a knot – let’s say you live in Seattle, and your soulmate lives in Rome. And you have a fear of flying. You’ll spend the rest of your life never finding your soulmate.

Let’s say you live in New York, and your “soulmate” lives in Florida. The problem is that your Jewish grandparents tortured you as a child by taking you to Florida way too many times and you never want to set foot in that state again. So you only vacation now in the Caribbean.

If you believe that there is one soulmate for you out there in the world, then you’d better start traveling to find that person!

But if you’re like me – and you believe that you can have soul connections with people, then you are far more evolved than the person who believes there is one perfect partner for everyone.

I don’t believe that there is one person for everybody, and I never have. (That’s not entirely true, I’ll take that back – my mother tortured me with the whole soulmate idea for a long time and throughout my life I thought I had found mine – I thought Ellen was my soulmate, I thought Karen was my soulmate, then Jessica, then Sonya…)

I never thought of Alison (my recent girlfriend) as my soulmate, I thought of her as an equal. That is probably the reason why that relationship was the best I’ve ever had.

I’ve had women tell me – some even recently – that they thought we were soulmates. I looked at them and said, “we might have a soul connection, but we’re not soulmates.”

I believe that your soul is meant to mate with many different people. You can have soul connections – I think Daphne and I have a soul connection. Wherever I go, that dog follows. The minute I met Daphne – she looked at me and she stuck by my side like glue. That’s a soul connection.

If you want to go even deeper into lala-ville (because I do live in Los Angeles) I do believe in past lives and everything else, and I do believe that souls can come back and find each other. I believe that friends will come back and find each other as different things. I could have been a little girl in another life.

If you’ve ever seen the movie Defending Your Life with Albert Brooks – which is one of the funniest movies ever – there is this scene where this big chunky guy is doing past life regression and sees himself licking a lollipop and jumping around like a little girl. It was the funniest scene in the entire world – he absolutely freaked out.

But I do believe that souls come back. There are certain people that you meet – male or female – that you know you are going to be friends with them instantly. It’s your souls connecting with each other.

There are women that I’ve dated that I’ve had instant soul connections with. Some of those connections were more lustful than others, and some were just on a friendship level.

So I do believe that you can have soul connections. If there was one person in the world for you, and you screw up that relationship by the time you are 30, does that mean you have to spend the rest of your life alone? Absolutely not.

I could move to Russia tomorrow – not speaking any of the language – and find soul connections with some of the most amazing women. I bet I could make some great friends. But I’ll never drink the vodka because I’m just not a drinker!

But your soulmate is a farce. It’s bullshit. You can have lots of soulmates and many soul connections, but there is not just one person for you. If there were, there would be a ton of people running around the world accumulating many more frequent flier miles trying to find their soulmate.

Here’s another interesting tidbit for all of you: in different parts of your life, you’ll have different soul connections. You are ready for different types of relationships at different periods of your life.

So you might have had an intense soul connection – or you might have thought someone was your soulmate – but maybe you weren’t ready for that relationship.

Right now, I’m ready to meet my bootymates!

That’s a new term that nobody uses – do you know what a bootymate is? It’s an incredible sexual connection with somebody who doesn’t aggravate you at all. All you do is have amazing sex and you feel like your bodies were made for each other. You feel like your bodies know each other. But you don’t have the aggravation of maintaining a relationship.

You don’t have to say “I love you” – hell, you don’t even have to say, “I like you!” All you have to do is respect each other’s bodies and respect each other’s space. Respect everything. And know that when you get together, your souls are going to connect because you and she are bootymates!

Craig: The concept of soulmate came from Greek mythology. Back then, people believed that once upon a time everyone had two heads, four arms, and four legs – but just one soul.

Then the gods threw down lightning bolts and split everybody in half, so now each person had one head, two arms, and two legs – but only half of a soul. You were supposed to spend the rest of your life looking for the other half of your soul.

The problem with this is, just as David said, what if in this huge world, your soulmate lives far away? You might never find them. Or worse yet, what if your soulmate lives in your city and you were having a really shitty day on the day that you first met them? Now you’re still doomed to live the rest of your life alone.

I’m convinced that we meet a potential “soulmate” once or twice a month, but we’re not ready to meet them yet and they just pass us by. I’m convinced that serendipity plays a much bigger role in us finding somebody that is right for us. There are just groups of people out there that are right for each of us, and we end up finding one of those people only when we are ready for it.

David: That’s really interesting, I agree with you. It’s so true it’s unbelievable. I’m going to requote you on that: we probably do run into our soulmate at so many different times over the course of a month – except we’re not aware of it, or we’re not ready, or we’re not open for it.

They make a left, you make a right, but you were supposed to meet in the middle. Or you’re in the market and you get a Blackberry text message. As you look down, your soulmate walks right by you. It’s very interesting. I don’t think we spend enough time out there engaging everybody.

I think that if you really follow the stuff that I talk about in the Mastery Series, in the bootcamps, and everything else – you could probably find a soulmate once a week. You would be so much more in tune with your environment and with who you are as a person – you would know yourself inside and out. You’d be so open to things that you would connect with people just like yourself.

This weekend was really interesting. I was telling one of the guys (Allan actually) that he’s going to date exactly who he is right now – shy, quiet, very sweet, very nice, great personality. He’s going to meet a woman who has the same type of qualities yet wants to become a little bit more outgoing. Together they are going to really connect. He’ll make a great husband.

But he has to find enough courage to go out there, open his eyes, and start talking to them. That’s what it takes: courage. People don’t have the courage to talk to each other.

Do you realize that is the biggest fear that most people have: that they don’t have enough courage to go up and talk to people? Yet if they could just walk up to someone and say, “man, I really wanted to come over and talk to you, what’s your name?” the other person would be so receptive, because they feel the same exact way!

Usually people are attracted to people who share the same characteristics that they have. Guys will wish that they could date certain women – every guy wants to date the Maxim magazine model – but they won’t. And they know that.

So that’s an interesting topic, and an interesting thought – and it’s 100% true.

Hailed on Fox News, The LA Times, The NY Times, Playboy and more… Legendary Dating Coach Launches a New Revolution For over nearly 20 years David Wygant has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. (http://www.davidwygant.com)

How to make people laugh - Online dating chat and singles tips

Girls and guys love funny people. Ever met a person at a party who appears to always have people wanting to sit near them and to be in their company? We all love a laugh and an easy going, laid back partner who doesn't put others down is just great at the dinner table. But what about when online dating? Is it enough simply to be funny? Its certainly a start...

Laughing and making other people laugh is a big asset in life. Laughing produces good hormones in the body that help people feel more positive, healthier and even tolerant of others. Even though naturally funny people exist, making someone laugh is a skill that can be taught. Real life stories are funnier than made up ones. Great comedians draw heavily on their actual life experiences, so the joke is on themselves rather than on other people, drawing focus on little details that may have appeared insignificant and showing other people an insight regarding the workings of their mind. As we can relate to the actual aspects of the story, the entire joke appears believable and the humor in it comes across genuine. Comedians who are well known for this type of comedy include Billy Connolly, arguably the funniest scot alive.

Repetition, saying the same thing several times can cause it to become humorous. Sounds unbelievable? Sometimes pushing a joke beyond the boundaries works.

Misdirection. A style many comedians apply is misdirection. This means they include a story that goes in a totally different direction to that that was expected. Groucho Marx would use this technique. The basis behind this is that when the listener knows what is going to occur then it won't be funny however by catching them by surprise, their mind can see the funny side. Chevy Chase often uses this tactic with his joke telling.

Escalation is another different technique to be humorous. This means that the story begins in a sensible, predictable way and then escalates into the very funny. You add more and more funny dialogue until the listener begins cracking up in laughter.

Understatement is when you make an important topic seem really trivial. Reversal means moving the story around so that it refers to the incorrect noun - like "residents dangerous to local dogs"

The error many of us make when trying to be humorous is to try to be funny non stop. They end up sounding idiotic and embarrass themselves. The answer to humor is to inject it into a story. It is sometimes someone who is usually fairly straight, that comes across really funny when they throw in several random lines to a conversation or who then tell a really clever tale of their lives.

The main difference online is that you need to count on the content or context to display humor - sarcasm, unless you know the person does not work very well online.

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Tips on How to Attract Women - The Basics

If you are a guy looking for tips on how to attract women, then let me share seven proven techniques to start attracting beautiful women. You'll be happy to learn that you don't need to be good looking, powerful or rich to attract and date beautiful women. Implement the guidelines I describe below to attract women into your lifestyle, then you are guaranteed that your dating life will change for the better almost instantly.

#1- Have Some Class - Don't be an embarrassment by being rude or ignorant in public. Acting like a straight up jerk will not help you attract women. You will turn off many women acting this way. Be cautious of those few that find this behavior acceptable. Be on good behavior all the time. Make it a point to be considerate and respectful to others in front of her. This goes a long way with women.

#2- Confidence - Of all the tips on how to attract women, the most important tip is to act confident. Ask any women and she'll tell you that the most attractive trait a man can have is confidence. One should not mistake this for being overly cocky or arrogant. Women are naturally drawn to a man displays the ability to be calm and cool in any social situation. If you are not confident or comfortable around women, then fake it until you become so.

#3- Be Charming - Being relaxed, flirtatious and funny goes a long way with attracting women. Be careful not to go to far here. A quick way to kill attraction with a woman is to throw too many sexual comments into the conversation. Doing so can make you come across more like a creep than a potential lover. Show her you're a fun guy by keeping her and her friends entertained. Don't go overboard or else she might just think of you as the court jester and not as a potential love interest.

#4-Pay Her Attention - Women love when men make them feel precious and important. Showing her attention will draw her closer to you. Be somewhat stingy with the compliments at first. Don't over do it. If you pay too much attention, the challenge will be gone for her and she will lose attraction for you. You want to ration the amount of attention you give to her. Split it up between her and the other things in your surroundings. This will leave her wanting more attention from you.

#5- Story Teller - Share with her stories about interesting adventures and mishaps that you have had happen in you life. The stories don't need to be outrageous to be interesting, just make sure they are interesting. Stories help women to escape their boring everyday lives and love to be carried off into their imagination. Don't believe me? Go down to any bookstore and take a look at the hundreds of romance novels on the shelf. Women can't get enough of this stuff. Try not to go into too much detail and focus on keeping the story short and to the point. Listening to long stories will bore her and will most likely cause her mind to wander off elsewhere.

#6- Personal Hygiene - Women spend so much time making themselves up before going out. Take it upon yourself to make your appearance presentable. If you have poor hygiene, then you can rest assured you will fail miserably when trying to attract women. Spend a little money on some nice cologne. Showering and deodorant are mandatory and should go without saying. Don't make the mistake of bathing in cologne. More is not always better, especially when it comes to attracting women. You don't want your cologne to overpower the room. Use a small amount in a few strategic places and you will be ok.

#7- - Take an interest in what a woman is saying to you and you will find that building rapport with her will happen almost automatically. Listening to a woman and taking an interest in what she has to say will unveil many hints to what she likes and values. The advantage to listening closely to what she says is that you will never run out of things to talk about. Use the clues she gives you and spin it to start a new conversation about something you know she is interested in. A word of caution here! You need to make sure that you don't fall into the "friend zone". Whenever possible, try to create and heighten the sexual tension. In order to build attraction in a woman, she must feel that you are a sexual threat and not just one of the girls.

I get emails everyday from guys wanting to know the best tips on how to attract women. The primary reason they have issues is that they are not following one or more of the tips mentioned in this article. Make it a point to implement all tips mentioned here and you find much more success in your dating life.

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David Jones writes regularly about dating related topics. I hope you enjoy this article.

5 Tips For an Amazing Relationship

1# Make Time For Your Relationship

Time and time again, people tell me my ideas are wonderful, but they feel they can't be as loving or romantic as I am because they don't have enough hours in the day.

I have the same amount of time given to me each day as everyone else does. It's how I prioritize the time that might be different. Besides my relationship with my Creator, my time spent with Athena is most important to me. More important than my job. More important than the money I make. More important than exercise. More important than my friends or other family members. And yes, even more important than Ashton, my darling little son.

I am not against nice items for those who can afford them and don't have to work insane hours to attain them. But I am slightly perplexed by those who work too many hours or have a long daily commute just so they can have "things," not realizing they are losing something that is even more valuable and precious.

2# Share Secrets Together

I've got a secret and I'm not sharing. Actually, I have a lot of secrets. There are a lot of things that are only known to Athena and me. That keeps us close. I like it when Athena shares things with me that she doesn't share with others. It makes me feel special and unique in her eyes. I tell her things that I don't tell my friends or family. It's not like these are horrible things we have done that we can't tell others. I just want Athena to feel like she knows me better than anyone else.

Make your sweetheart feel special. Always share important things with them first. Let some things remain a secret between the two of you for a little while before letting the rest of the world know all about your personal life.

3# Have Date Nights

Without special time together, relationships can pull apart or simply become stale. But you can't simply replace doing nothing with doing the exact same thing week after week. The - oh-so-predictable - dinner and a movie can be all right if mixed up with some other types of dates. Here are a few suggestions: Bookstore, library, museum, zoo or park date, or together collect clothes for a shelter.

4# Spice Up Your Love Life

If you find that sex is becoming very sporadic in your relationship (and you are not happy with that) consider scheduling "sex nights." Just like date nights, schedule one or two days each week for physical intimacy. Some people find the idea of planned sex off-putting at first, but later come to anticipate the weekly ritual. Having sex planned in advance makes for prolonged foreplay!

5# Get Your Debt Under Control

If you want to have a blissful relationship, you will need to get your debt under control (or at least a plan to do so). Otherwise, your debt will control you and affect you physically and psychologically.

When you get a paycheck, the first thing you should do is set aside money for charity/church. Doesn't seem logical, but it works. Sit down with your partner and discuss all aspects of your family budget. Only when you analyze your spending habits will you fully realize where you are wasting money. It's a great opportunity to talk about your goals and dreams. Realize that frivolously spending money can be a sign of disrespect for your marriage and mate.

If you would like a bigger diamond ring or a fancier car, ask yourself why. Take a quick inventory of all the items you own but could really live without. Consider how much you paid for them. What if you didn't buy those items and had all that money in savings instead? Would it make a difference in how you view your job, your family and your future? For more information, visit: 50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships

Get your ex back - 6 tips to consider

So you have had that conversation where you hear that you are now “officially” broken up. Now what do you do? You might feel tempted to win her back by “wearing down her resistance”. You think that if you call her a hundred times or text her a thousand messages that she will HAVE to get back with you… Occasionally, this MIGHT work, but generally, this could put an end to whatever hope you had to get back together. Take this approach and you would be hit by lightning sooner than winning her heart again. Here are 6 things to do (or AVOID DOING AT ALL COSTS) to win back your love.

1. Do not panic. If you get all crazy and possessive, you won’t get her back. Don’t throw a fit, beg or grovel at their feet. This just reinforces their belief that you are not able to give them room or any chance to breathe. You come across as painfully needy. Give them some space and you increase your chance to get them back.

2. Avoid making demands of your ex. This is absolutely the wrong time to issue orders and insist on doing things your way. This could slam the door on any reunion possibilities.

3. Only apologize for those things you really did. If you apologize for everything that went wrong for the entire relationship, you may be overdoing it. It will not usually help patch things up.

4. Even if it takes all of your strength, agree with them that you should split up, (assuming that you didn’t initiate the breakup) even if it feels so wrong to do so, because it works. You both need the time to cool off the volatile emotions that have probably surfaced. This shows your ex that you know that things were not perfect, and you realize that there is a need to work through things out.

5. Do not try to make your ex feel bad or jealous. You will only end up angering and alienating them, and your chances of resolution become much harder.

6. Even though you are taking a break in the relationship, you may have to deal with them in everyday life. Don’t be rude or completely ignore your ex. Strive to be as pleasant as you would to an acquaintance, but go about your business or walk away.

Experiencing a breakup is something that we would do anything to avoid. You can hope for reunion if you remain strong, make a plan and stick to it.

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Get Your Ex Back With These 3 Sure Fire Tips

For you to be reading this article right now, means you have just gone through a break up and you are probably desperate trying to find a solution to get your ex back into your life. I know how horrible a situation like this can be, I have been there many times myself while I have been dating a few years ago. I would have been glad if I knew this technique I am going to tell you about a few years ago, it would have help me get back with my boyfriend much faster rather than having to go through really bad days. Before you can get your ex back you need to have a plan, to know exactly what to do at the right time and this article will provide you with what you need. The three sure fire tips that will get your ex back to you; you will not even have time to sigh.

The biggest mistake that many people make after a break up is calling their ex and begging them to take them back into their life, you will need to resist yourself from doing this to avoid making things worse for yourself. Trust me on this, it will work and doing this has never worked for anyone. Bear in mind that your ex does not want someone who is needy and begging, doing this will just show this side of you. So, take my advice and do not beg, nothing positive will come out of it.

On the other hand, you need to try to calm down so that you can face things with a cool mind. You need to give your ex the impression that your life will go on even if it is without them. It is funny how people react at times; when they see that you do not need them it is at this very moment that they will want you more. That is a natural human behavior; we always want what we cannot have. To keep the game going, go out with friends, go shopping. Do all those things that you enjoy doing, your ex will see that your are living your life without them.

After some time, around a week or so you can call your ex. Best is to call and not send an email neither a postcard. Just call them up and talk to them. What you will talk about is simple; you do not to go in details about your break up right now. Just ask them how they have been doing and it will not matter much if they were unfriendly. You need to understand them too; you are both talking to each other after some time. Then ask if they would like to meet up with you, do not go for something big. Whether over a cup of coffee or for lunch, you decide what is more convenient for you.

During your meeting is where you will tell your ex that you have been thinking about the situation and have realized your mistakes and that you would like to get back with them and starting everything over, you got it right, you are taking all the blame. Do not try to rush things from here, give your ex time to think over it too then ask them to meet again and most probably your ex will agree, if not you have to keep trying until they say yes.

Ruby Mora has been as a relationship advisor to her friends for a long time. Mostly dealing with delicate situations like a break ups where the partners wanted to get their ex back. She recommends reading The Magic Of Making Up, an e-book that has already helped thousands of couples to get back together.

Nice Girls Finish Last

Are you a nice girl? Maybe that's why you are still single. When I say "nice" girl, I don't mean respectful, considerate of others, a loyal friend, etc. When I say "nice" girl, I mean a woman who overcompensates with men way before they have earned it. She cooks him a four-star meal and serves it to him on a gold platter, buys his favorite name brand shirts, drives two hours to get him exotic strawberries dipped in chocolate - all on the second date! Ok ladies, we've all been there. Desperately doing whatever we can to hold on to a man because we don't think we are good enough and doing whatever we can to keep the relationship going at all costs. How does it show? The guy never calls you again. We've all been there at one point in our lives.

Here is the lesson: Anything you chase in life runs away. Anything you clench with tight fists slips through your fingers. When it comes to men, this is especially the case. Why? Because he senses that you don't place a high value on yourself. He senses that you are trying to compensate for your unworthiness by giving him things prematurely in the relationship. A woman also comes across as desperate when she is overcompensating.

According to the Rules, a "Creature Unlike Any Other" on the other hand, will do the opposite. She values herself enough to know that he is lucky enough that she has chosen to be with him. She can take him or leave him! That means that she does not cook him gourmet meals during the first 6 months of their relationship. If anything, she'll feed him hot dogs on a bun with ketchup - and her dazzling smile. For dessert, she will not make Tiramisu. Rather, she will serve him a Hostess Twinkie - again with a smile. After six months, she may serve him Hamburgers and French Fries made from ground beef that she bought from the supermarket up the street. He'll appreciate it more, because she didn't hand him everything up front!

As women, we must learn how to dole out one Jelly Bean at a time in the beginning of a relationship. A woman must pace the relationship - especially in the beginning. Why? Men love instant gratification. The first thing a man sees when he sees a woman are her physical attributes. If you give him your body, your mind, your soul, your money and your devotion, all on the second date or even in the first 6 months of dating, he will lose appreciation for you because he didn't have to earn those things from you.

So remember, you are the prize. If you keep that concept in the forefront of your mind at all times, you will begin to act like a "Creature Unlike Any Other" and then he will treat you like his dream girl. Fake it until you make it if this feeling doesn't come naturally for you! Until next time, remember, Keep Him Mad About You, Not Mad At You. For dating advice and diet and diet and fitness tips, please contact me at http://howilost90pounds.com, or email me at shalisha42@aol.com

Shalisha Alston resides in Midtown Manhattan and is a Legal Assistant at an Intellectual Property Law Firm in Downtown Manhattan. She attended Yeshiva of Crown Heights for her primary education. Her collegiate education consists of Stony Brook University where she majored in Psychology and later Hunter College where she majored in History with a minor in Philosophy. S

The Meaning Behind Flowers - A Secret Language You Need To Learn

We don't really think about the meaning behind flowers today whenever we give them, we just pick out a pretty flower and we give it to someone but actually the meaning of flowers and the language has been lost

The Victorians used flowers as a discreet form of communication. During the 18th century sending flower messages based on a Turkish secret language of flowers became popular. This was known as sending a 'Persian Salaam' - a coded bouquet to reveal your feelings of love or attraction. The Victorians became very knowledgeable in flower language and chose and arranged their bouquets carefully.

Of course all flowers deal with love and appreciation in some way or another, but their color or arrangement can mean different things.

For example, back then red roses stood for love as they do today, but yellow roses stood for jealousy. If you sent yellow carnations to someone, it meant you were rejecting them.

The study of the meaning of flowers is an actual science known as floriography, and it reveals an extra underlying meaning to sending or receiving flowers - subtle and secret messages can be passed through the different blooms.

"How charmingly a young gentleman can speak to a young lady, and with what eloquent silence in this delightful language."

Many of these secret meanings behind flowers have been forgotten over the centuries, but if there's something you want to say to someone, nothing says it like flowers.

Here are some selected flowers and their particular symbolic meanings:

* Aloe meaning - Grief * Alstroemeria meaning - Devotion; friendship * Alyssum meaning - Worth beyond beauty * Ambrosia meaning - Love returned * Aster meaning - Love; daintiness * Azalea meaning - Take care of yourself for me; fragile passion; * Baby's Breath meaning - Everlasting love; happiness; * Begonia meaning - Beware * Bluebell - constancy and everlasting love * Calendula meaning - Joy * Carnation meaning (in general) - Bonds of affection; * Chysanthemum meaning (in general) - Cheerfulness; * Daisy meaning - Innocence; loyal love; purity; faith; cheer; * Iris meaning - Faith; hope; wisdom and valour; my compliments; * Larkspur meaning (pink) - Fickleness; levity * Lily meaning (general) - Purity * Orange Blossom meaning - Wisdom; purity; eternal love; * Orchid meaning - Love; beauty; refinement; you flatter me * Queen Anne's Lace meaning - Fantasy * Ranunculus meaning - You are radiant with charms * Tulip(general) meaning - Fame; charity; declaration of love

There's certainly more to the meaning of flowers than you might realize. Have fun exploring some of the multiple interpretations, ambiguous meanings and historical contexts behind flowers.

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How to Get an Ex Girlfriend Back in 4 Easy Steps

Breakups can be easy for the person who is doing the breaking up. For those who are being broken up with, however, times can be hard. While there are occasions where you may not want someone back, chances are you are trying to think of multiple ways to get an ex girlfriend back. Trying to get an ex girlfriend back can be one of the most difficult and confusing things to do. Are you doing too much? Are you doing too little? There are millions of questions that can run through your mind as you try to get an ex girlfriend back. By following these tips, however, you can be sure that you are doing the right things.

#1- Do Not Sleep Around

This may be somewhat blunt, and obvious, but it is a serious point when trying to get an ex girlfriend back. If word gets around that you are getting around (as gossip would have it, it probably will), she will figure that you have moved on. As much as you may want to take your sexual frustration out, if you really want to get an ex girlfriend back, you need to restrain yourself.

#2- Call Her, Occasionally

Anyone who is calling their ex three times a week, trying to win them back, is going to be seen as sad and desperate. While playing hard to get may not necessarily be the best course of action, calling your ex every once and a while is a great way to try to get an ex girlfriend back. When you call, do not pull the “I miss you SO MUCH” or the “I need you!”. Simply ask how they are doing. Ask them how work is going, and how things are. Show genuine interest, and not desperation.

#3- Make Yourself Better

Sure, you would like to think that your ex would come back to you the exact way you are. Chances are, however, is that your ex left you because of exactly who you are. If you want your ex to see you in a different light, put yourself in a different light. By eating right an exercising, you can change your appearance and health, which may be enough of a change when trying to get an ex girlfriend back.

#4- Do Not Play Hard to Get

Playing hard to get will get you nowhere. If you have been left, playing hard to get is simply disappearing, and that is exactly what you do not want to happen when trying to get an ex girlfriend back. Do not be suffocating and annoying. By simply making yourself pop up every now and then, however, you can change her mind. Send an e-mail every so often (we are talking weeks, not days). Call her to see how she is doing. Be sure to make contact, as disappearing will not help you get an ex girlfriend back.

Trying to get an ex girlfriend back can be difficult, but by following these tips, it is possible.

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Dating Relationship Tip: They Ain't Paying for Nothing

At first you were not really sure. You'd go out for a walk and maybe come across an ice cream stand. You'd asked them if they would like one. They'd seem to hedge a little bit until you offered to pay for it. Then they readily accepted. Another time, you made the suggestion to take in a movie. Your dating partner declined and told you there is a really good film on one of those cable stations; best to stay home and get comfy.

You let it go for awhile. After all the two of you do hit it off pretty well. You also share many of the same interests so you took in all in stride. Before you knew it, the two of you were a couple.

But it started to occur with such alarming frequency that you could not overlook it anymore; especially after the last date. They called and invited you out to a restaurant. Needless to say you were pleasantly surprised but you were even more surprised when they pulled the car into the drive thru at McDonald's. Amazingly, you held your tongue. You figured the fact they invited you out was a major step in the right direction. That is until you ordered. When the attendant gave you the total and said "drive around", your date turned to you and requested you cough up the money for your half of the bill.

Right there you discovered two things:

1. You are dating a tightwad 2. You cannot eat when you are angry.

There are a couple of things you have to admire about cheapskates. The way they save their money; the ability to sniff out a bargain, their discipline when it comes to fiscal responsibility can be classified as admirable traits. The problem arises when these qualities cross into stingy territory; which is always. One person constantly shelling out cash on a date while the other booby traps their wallet can put a major strain on any relationship if not end it all together.

There are several ways to deal with this dilemma. You can develop a thicker skin and accept the fact your date is intent on being named to the penny pincher's hall of fame. You could also try to change them which will take a lot of work on your part and may not produce the result you want. Or just carry your own money and tell your date from now on the two of you will always go dutch. They may agree with that last one but let them know it comes with a proviso. You like a Big Mac just as much as the next person but when the two of you go out things are going to be a little more upscale.

In spite of their cheapskatedness, you like your dating partner; maybe a lot. You get the impression they feel the same way about you. That's great but one person always getting their way is not healthy for any dating relationship. If they really care about you then they have to give some ground. If not then by all means let them enjoy their happy meal all by themselves.

Article written by Daryl Campbell - The Relationship Tip - No matter the circumstances, you are not in a dating relationship to be someone's doormat. Make sure they understand that loud and clear.

Relationship Break Up: Your Ex Is A Pain But You Still Want Them Back

"The broken dates - the endless waits The lovely loving - and the hateful hates The conversation - with the flying plates I wish I were in love again"

- Rodgers and Hart

Nobody could press your buttons like your ex. A simple question could spark world war three. But the when the love and passion were there...Yowza!! It was you and your significant other against the world and the world always lost.

Unfortunately that volcanic relationship erupted too many times in a bad way. The arguments got more intense and lasted longer while the kiss and make up periods grew shorter to the point of almost non existent. You both tiptoed around each other for fear of stepping on an emotional landmine. Communication ground to a halt and that laughter that was so much a part of the relationship in the beginning disappeared completely.

It's all over. The both of you said your goodbyes and made peace with each other. Then why are you still hankering to get them back?

It's not uncommon for many people to believe they will never experience anything that compares with their previous relationship. Sure it was a roller coast ride filled with some unwanted twists and turns but it made you feel alive in ways you never imagined. There were more than a few people in your social circle who never believed the two of you would make it as far as you did. The thing about it was they were on the outside looking in. They had no idea how the dynamics of your relationship actually worked. They still don't.

But you do and that's why you want your former significant other back in your life. It is of course your choice but keep in mind very few things remain unchanged. If you are trying to get your ex back in the hope of creating those golden moments then you may be in for a let down.

Accept the fact that it is going to be a tricky proposition. In the first place they may not want to rekindle their relationship with you. For many people a clean break means just that. Number two is timing. You have to give them breathing room so they can do a little self assessment. That means you can't bombard them with phone calls, text messages, email and the all to frequent " I just happened to be in the neighborhood so I thought I'd drop in" routine. Respect their space.

But even that can be risky. You don't want to give them so much time and room that, they forget all about you. So the question becomes how do you strike a balance? There is no hard and fast rule on this so you are going to have to gage it on the fly. Also what are you going to do that will make them want to come back? Same old same old won't cut it. Your ex enjoyed many parts of the relationships but they called it quits for a reason. What areas are you going to change to let them to show your ex you are serious? It can't be a temporary change either. Since your ex knows you pretty well the chances are they will see right thru that. Besides that are they also willing to change? Let's face it they had an equal hand in derailing this relationship. If the burden falls on you to make all the self improvements, you are inviting trouble. A famous writer once said, "You can't go home again." That describes former relationships to a tee. Yet it is not completely hopeless. Many a couple have reunited after a breakup and gone on to build a stronger and better relationship than the one they had before. It takes timing, hard work, patience and willingness on both sides to give it another go. Even if you have all that in your favor, it still might not work. But if you feel it's worth the gamble than go for it. Who knows? The two of you might get it right this time around.

Article written by Daryl Campbell - The Relationship Tip - Okay. You've made your decision and you definitely want your ex back. Now what?.

Secrets to Attract Women or The Top 3 Secrets to Get More Women

It's a fact: Most single men are unhappy. The reason is simple: They don't meet enough women. But there are also happy guys out there - those who meet women often and often have sex with different women. And every one can become such a guy, because fortunately the ability to attract women doesn't depend on your looks, job, income or background.

So, what are the secrets those lucky guys know about? How can you attract more women?

Secret #1: Be social.

The idea behind it is that the more social you are, the more people you meet. The more people you meet, the higher the chance you meet women and will have sex with them. Spending all day in the gym may improve your looks, but it won't get you more women. Besides your social skills will get better every time you communicate with different people and you will do better next time you meet a beautiful girl. More important, one of the things women look for in a man is social status. If you are a person who talks with many different people (girls and guys) on parties and so on, your social status is high and women will automatically feel attracted to you. If you stand alone in a corner with a beer in your hand the whole evening and watch all the other people having fun, your social status is as low as it can be. So, go out regularly and interact with different people. Get to know people. Try to make a habit of it. If you don't know what to say, learn some openers like "Hi guys! I have a quick question for you - who lies more, men or women?" aso. Remember, nothing impresses a woman more than social status, the fact that other people (not only girls) like you, that you are popular (= social proof). Smile and laugh a lot, it will have a positive effect on the people you're talking to and it demonstrates confidence.

Secret #2: Be the Alpha Guy.

Women love dominant guys. Actually, dominance and self-confidence are the top qualities women look for in a man. And as about 90 % of the success of your approach depends on your body language, your tone and timing, you have to master those areas first. Only a strong and coherent body language can demonstrate confidence. Women are attracted to confidence as it indicates a high status. The alpha guy is a type of man who can demonstrate that he is successful and has women in his life. He is not needy like the nice guys women only rip off. The alpha guy always sets the tone, never looks for approval and always has a plan where to go and what to do. He never asks the woman "What would you like to do?"� Don't be fooled, most women don't want a man who's asking them all the time on their wishes. They want a strong man who knows what he wants, tells them want they need - a leader who will take them for a ride. The alpha guy always has his own opinion on everything and never shows he's jealous.

Secret #3: Be interesting.

To quote the famous pickup artist Mystery: "In order to get a woman interested in you, you have to be interesting." Knowing interesting facts makes you interesting. But it's not enough, you have to develop a unique personality, your own point of view on anything. The reason for that is, it makes you stand out from the last 10 or even 100 guys the girl you're talking to hooked up with. Being interesting also means that you can demonstrate (a special) value - something not everyone can do. This doesn't mean that you have to play a greasy song on the guitar (but do so if you can). Read up on palm reading, dream interpretation or psycho tests and use it on your next date. Women love all kinds of tests and actually, you are interesting if you know about that stuff.

You will find concrete tips (for example openers, body language) how to improve the 3 areas in this e-Book (the cool thing about it: there is a 60 day money back guarantee, so you don't risk a thing).

Simple Tips To Use An Asian Lady Online Dating Site

The description of an Asian lady is one that has been told many times before by their husbands who have been smitten by their charm, their beauty, and of course, their values. They are described as patient, understanding, loving, caring, lovely and dutiful. This explains why many guys have looked from across the world to Asia, to find Asian ladies who will brighten up their households and raise their families with.

For the date-seeker online, one might consider looking for Asian Online Dating Sites to find their perfect oriental lady. And truly, many have treaded this path. Since Asia, can be far off in the East, and one may not be able to find time to travel there just to look for love, the options that the Internet give are quite helpful, rewarding and convenient. With only a few clicks, one can browse at dating sites to meet many Asian women. With a mere click in a search engine, you can find sites that can be helpful for this purpose and truly, the choices are dizzying in number. Many sites offer different specialized services for you to make the most out of Asian Online Dating. Of course, all the basic tools such as real-time chat, private messaging, message boards, forums and blogs, as well as profile making options of different formats can be made to make your online dating experience fun and convenient. But all of these sites adhere to one main goal, and that is to introduce the singles all over the world in one virtual world.

So how does one find their way into the arms of these Asian ladies? The Online Dating Sites that feature Asian women are the easiest ways to reach them. Great sites such as AsianEuro, AsiaFriendFinder and FilipinaHeart are only a few of those that are host to the greatest online Asian lady profiles that will give you the best selections to choose from. You only have to sign up as a member to these sites so you may have access to their member's profiles, and at the same time, find the best ways to communicate with them.

Dating an Asian lady online can be an exciting experience as it introduces one to a new culture that consists of family-orientation, divine providence, conservativeness, dutiful housekeeping and dedicated love. This culture is one that shapes them into the best housewives to match the modern and busy bachelor's lifestyle. Also, their greatest values are those that can be most perfect ones to mold your children into great people in the future. The bottom line is, when you are dating an Asian Lady now, you might be on the right track.

Loving an Asian lady is every man's dream. Needless to say, it happens most easily now, since Internet makes it possible to connect every single all over the world. With the user-friendly tools of online dating sites nowadays, it makes it even easier for anyone to find his perfect match in a matter of minutes, and this way of modern dating surpasses distance, time and race, it only holds true for love.

Learn also how to get the most of Asian dating sites, where you'll find this and some more tips and advice about Asian online dating service.

Top Three Getting Back Together Tips, Getting Your Ex Back

So you've broken up, rejection stings; but you need getting back together tips, you want to get your ex back. Maybe you acted pretty stupidly to make him/her leave; maybe your boyfriend/girlfriend just doesn't understand what they're losing (you and what you have to offer.) But you're determined to bring him/her back.

At this stage you might have acted a little foolishly: called your ex incessantly, texting them to no end; or even stood begging at their front door. Truth is you can't snap your fingers and make them come back; you have to be a little sneaky and let their real love for you come back out to the surface and get them back into your life. How do you do this, you might ask. Well, obviously you're reading this article, so why don't I tell you some of the most successful tips in getting back together.

First: stay calm, put on your "cool" mask; in fact you want your ex now to think that you aren't interested very much in him/her any more. When you talk to him/her agree with the breakup, say that it was good that you broke up and that you're now moving on. This is good for you because you are no longer in denial, and now this has the effect of putting you ex off balance. He/she expected you to continue to complain, protest, or mourn the breakup. In effect you have turned the tables on him/her; now you have rejected them.

Second: inject more uncertainty into his/her mind; tell them that you have moved on and you're seeing some new friends. You shouldn't say yes or no if you're actually dating any of them (because you may not) but you want the imagination of his/her mind to now start to work on them. We all want what we can't have and the fact that you may be seeing someone else means that he's not dating you. All of a sudden you become more desirable in his/her eyes because you are "seeing" other people.

Congratulations, you have just using his/her envious or jealous tendencies against them. You don't want to hurt them obviously; but you are using subtle psychological tricks to pull out his underlying love and affection for you.

Thirdly, ask him/her to do you a favor. Ask them to return a library book or something. Simple enough you say, but why? Whenever we do a favor for someone it is because we love and care for them, we are interested in their well-being. When you ask someone to do a favor for you, you are in effect forcing him/her to nurture good loving feelings toward you because we always act in accordance to our internal motivations. When he or she acts on these feelings they tend to become stronger and more substantial.

Now you might call this a beginning to getting back together; are there more steps to getting back your ex? Yes there certainly are and they are covered in more depth at our website devoted to getting back together, getting your ex back. But if you can do these things, you have done a lot already. Good luck.

Find out more about the tips and tricks to beating the relationship blues at http://www.relationships2u.com Curtis Burns runs the site and is a writer on many subjects including the world of relationships; he lives in St Paul, MN, USA.

Title: Thai Dating - How to Find Your Dream Thai Girl

Sorting Most of us have heard about the troubles-the problems, the tricks and the heartbreaks. It doesn't only apply to a minority of Thai girls-it's also a minority of women all over the world who are simply "gold diggers". Of course, in western society the prize fish for a gold digger would be a millionaire or even a billionaire. Now let's scale that down exponentially-to the average lass from the developing world - a man from the developed world IS a millionaire in relative terms. Fortunately or unfortunately (for some), due to the expansion and development in countries like Thailand in not only economic areas, but also socio-structural ideals, the average middle-aged westerner is no longer a prize fish for your local Thai girl.

On the other hand, finding your girl sweetheart through Thai dating sites such as sweetsingles.com is one way of ensuring a good catch. You can view details of all the young ladies, from their educational resumes to their religious tendencies. Taking a look at some of the main steps towards your goal, here are a few tips to get you on your way.

1.Learn about Thai culture, the people, their customs. It might be an eye-opener and it will certainly help you both. Learn a few Thai phrases. You may even want to visit Thailand first-this would give you an even greater insight into what kind of relationship you are looking for.

2.Know what you are looking for. Use the chat and email tools to allow you to communicate. Even if the girl you are dating online is not good at English, you can still judge with just a few sentences as to whether you share similar personalities and ideals.

3.Go slow. Take it easy, there's no need to rush into a relationship. You can take your time by slowly building up an online rapport. Treat them with kindness and kindness will be returned.

4. Looks can be deceiving. They say that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"-and this is certainly true. Have you ever wondered why one girl seems attractive to you but not to anybody else? This is because her "in-depth" beauty has shined and you have been smitten by it.

It's always wise to wise up for dating-Dos and Don'ts

Don't send in your money. If a girl asks you for money to help their family-you might be asking for trouble. Don't fall for good looks. Beauty is only skin-deep. Look for the inner self. Don't pity a girl because she seems poor. Most despise pity. Don't talk smut. Talking dirty will certainly give off the wrong impression. Don't tell lies. Don't lie and exaggerate. They'll see through you.

Do be polite. Always be polite. You will be respected much more for it. Do be kind. Kindness by showing empathy and affection is important. Do be witty. Try to be humorous. The ladies love it. Do tell the truth. There's no use in building yourself up into some kind of big shot. You'll be wasting your time. Do judge by instinct. Your first impression is usually the most important. You can't put your finger on it but you'll know immediately that she isn't right for you.

And finally, enjoy your online dating. You'll have hours of fun and hopefully find your life soul mate. Good luck!

If you are looking for your life long soul mate, try Thai dating at Sweetsingles. Free registration allows you to view and contact Thai girls at your leisure.

Title: Asian Dating - Find Asian Singles at Your Fingertips

My way-Asian way Now Ray did it his way-he wasn't young, nor rich, nor was he good-looking. He was just like everyone else; an ordinary guy struggling through life's journey. Work to live and live to work. As for girls, a string of failed relationships left him disillusioned with the women he'd met back home-not that there were many girls around in the town that he'd come from. He wanted to forget all that and concentrate on himself, he wanted to forget women altogether-for while anyhow. So he came to Thailand, initially with the idea of some form of enlightenment. Back in his own country he saved up as much as possible, quit his job and entered the Kingdom as he had always dreamed of. The Kingdom of Siam, better know nowadays as Thailand; the names themselves muster exotic images of a fruitful land of plenty-a combination of images-where the "King and I", robed Buddhist monks, lotus leaves and all the splendor of Siamese culture is rolled into one mystical dream world.

Asian life-two months later It was not what Ray had planned or expected, it "suddenly happened". He came out of his rented condominium in Suhkumvit one morning to buy his usual Bangkok Post newspaper. Still feeling a little bleary eyed as he entered the small kiosk off one of the Sois, he honed in on the last remaining newspaper and by some strange miracle, seemed to grab the paper simultaneously with someone else. The other hand was a beautiful slender hand with perfectly shaped nails, a singular gold ring on the left little finger. Her face was light brown with almond oriental eyes smiling at him. They gazed at each other for what seemed an eternity. "I'm sorry. You take it" he said. "No, you have it, you were first" she insisted. And there it was, the scene was set, Asian love. Ray hadn't come to Thailand to meet any women, let alone Asian women. His failed relationships and luckless dating back home had caused him aversion to all women, until now that is. Now life was beautiful, a joy to live and love as he had never experienced. Nantana and Ray were engaged to be married within the space of 6 months. They vowed transparency, and committed themselves to truth. All was well- until the one truth was about to destroy all. Before they met, Nan had been registered on an Asian singles dating agency called sweetsingles.com. She'd forgotten about the site and hadn't bothered to check her email for months so a stream of emails from "other men" had been building up. It appeared to Ray that she'd tried to conceal all of this and fuelled by his sudden jealousy, he flew into a rage- and out of the apartment. Ray was gone-gone for while at least. He finally returned after he had time to reflect on how irrational he had been. Tail between his legs, he returned to apologize. They made up.

Romance and Technology

Some say that the world isn't ready for high-tech romances such as online dating, singles-intro and marriage-by-data. Some shy away from it and others, like Ray, still feel it holds an air of smut and illegality about it. Yet, millions register and millions meet and marry. Today the word is changing. Cross-cultural and technological borders are being broken down and millions across the world from Asia to America are successfully meeting their soul mates. Companies such as sweetsingles.com offer free registration allowing members to view and contact their prospective soul mates from all over the world. There's a whole world out there, and discovery is at your fingertips.

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Title: Asian Girls and Asian women-the truth revealed.

Not long ago I read an article about how Asian women are despised by American women. The "reason" behind this is that they feel Asian girls are stealing their men. They dig up any old dirt on them, they regard them as whores because some of them are unfaithful, they regard them as noisy because some of them fight; despite the fact that this occurs within their own society among their own people.

Not only Asian Girls Adding a little more to that; It's not just America. And it doesn't just apply to Asian women either. White women from poorer countries who head for the developed world are all subject to certain forms of discrimination from local women. Especially if they are, beautiful, charming, sexy, kind and have one of those bubbly personalities that men just fall over for. Eastern European girls in the UK are hated by the local arrogant Brit girl. They get given hell in the work place and hell outside. Of course, all this is made worthwhile when they have a wonderful British man to love them, take care of them; and as they become more fluent in the language-things do improve. On the other hand, it makes me weary when I meet Asian women in places like Malaysia, Hong Kong and Thailand who think the sun shines continuously out the Rising Sun of Japan. They really do believe they are closer as Asians to the Japanese than they ever can be to us westerners. In reality though, the Japanese discriminate much more against other Asians. This is an unfortunate and unexpected eye-opener for any Asian man but especially women who has the opportunity to live in the land of frowns. Philippine girls who work in Japan as dancers and entertainers have caused so much strife to Japanese society-all just by being themselves; attractive, witty, kind and generous and Japanese men can't get enough of them, Japanese women loath them. When you go to one of these entertainment snack bars in Japan, it's easy to see why these girls are so popular. Their job is mainly to smooch around dressed in scanty costumes, sing karaoke and serve customers their drinks. Nothing more...except for the occasional date with the customer. Some customers are married which may cause a fare amount of conflict when the wife finds out.

Dating Sites All that aside, the number of young female entertainers and Asian dancers are in the minority-Japan has a whole foreign community of Asian people who are employed in various professions from nurses to factory workers. As in any community in any country there are good and bad. Many Asian women are looking for serious relationships. You can find these women on dating sites like sweetsingles.com. Companies like these enable members and guest members to search for and contact Asian women and girls all over the world. Sweetsingles.com is committed to registering nice genuine girls who are sincere in their search for a lifetime partner or soul mate.

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How To Keep From Breaking Up

We all know that relationships can be challenging, and that might be putting it kindly. Sometimes we find that our relationship has spiraled out of control and we really don't know how or when it got so bad but we do know that we don't want it to end. If you are wondering how to keep from breaking up there is a new book available that is unlike anything else out there.

The book is called "The Magic Of Making Up" It was written by a man named T.W. Jackson. An ex military brat who later joined the navy. He has traveled all over the world. With so much upheaval in his life he learned at a young age how to get along with people. He uses this insight in his book. He is not a physiologist or any other type of counselor. He has just learned how to read people and has incorporated his techniques and ideas in this book.

He will be the first to admit that his methods are very unconventional, but the proof is in the pudding. He has had over 6100 people in over 67 countries who swear by his 'system'.

This is unlike any other relationship or self help book around. He says you can achieve almost immediate results. His book covers some of the most common mistakes people make when going through a breakup and than gives practical advice on how to avoid them.

He explains the importance of thinking clearly so you can deal with the situation and not just sink into a 'funk", how to tell if your ex even wants you back, how to tell if they still care despite what they might say or do.

According to Jackson nearly 90% of all rebound relationships don't work and that you don't need to give up hope just because your ex is with someone new.

He also goes over topics such as how to change destructive patterns in your relationship once you do get back together. After all, saving your relationship won't do you any good if you just repeat the same destructive cycles.

He covers issues like infidelity, verbal abuse,the right time for sex, when and how to apologize and a lot of other helpful information.

Many of the strategies incorporated are unorthodox and go against mainstream thinking. But they are effective. "The Magic Of Making Up" has many unique but effective strategies. If you want to keep from breaking up, you may find the information in this book a lifesaver. When it comes to relationship problems we are usually our own worst enemies. In our desperation to get back together with someone or to keep from breaking up we usually do and say all the wrong things

"The Magic Of Making Up' helps you to slow down and take stock. Think before you act so you don't make the situation worse. We've all done that... rushed in trying to save the relationship and said or done the wrong thing and messed up our chances at a reconciliation.

If you are in a downward spiral in your relationship and you want to keep from breaking up I would recommend you check out "The Magic Of Making Up". This unconventional but effective book may be your best bet in salvaging your relationship. Give it a try, you have nothing to lose and hopefully a great relationship to gain.

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Free Dating Site - How to Protect Your Privacy

Protecting your privacy is important no matter whether you are using a free dating site or purchasing goods or services on the internet. No site is perfectly safe, but with a combination of common sense safeguards, you will stand less chance of having your privacy compromised.

Look for Security markers

A free dating site should have a clear statement on the site about what measures the web site owner has taken to protect users of the site from unwanted invasion of their personal privacy. The available technology today makes it possible for web site owners to provide comprehensive security and privacy measures to all the users. However, the members of the dating site must take responsibility for determining that the security exists on the site they are considering. Further, the security and privacy safeguards must be in place at all times and at all levels of the site.

Use Common Sense

Use your common sense to protect your privacy always. Don't give away your social security number, credit card numbers or other types of sensitive information. When you choose a free dating site, you don't need to worry about the wrong person getting the information about money and accounts you hold. You should never need to provide information of this sort with a free site. If you are asked to do so, the site is not free or is asking for unneeded information. Dating site members should never provide information of this site online.

Take your time

Don't be in a hurry to give information to those you meet at a dating site. They may be perfectly innocent questions, but if you are not pressured about giving information to the web site master or by the members you will be protected from much of the risk. Take time to get to know other web site members gradually without rushing into the release of any information that is personal or sensitive. If you only provide the same type of information that you would give a casual acquaintance, you will protect yourself.

Watch for inconsistencies

When you are getting to know others at a free dating site, you should be extra cautious about the stories that you learn about other members. Don't allow yourself to be drawn into a dangerous situation because someone is lying to you about their background and personality. It may be your intuition kicking into place or you may catch other inconsistencies from the conversation with the members, but don't ignore the information your gut gives you about another person or member. You can learn to be very selective about who you choose to further the relationship you start online.

Don't reveal personal information too soon

When you meet someone on a free dating site that you think may be a person of interest, you don't need to be in a hurry to give out telephone numbers or home addresses. Don't tell everything about where you work or where you go to school. In fact, don't tell any of your personal information if you don't know who will be reading it or learning about it on the internet. You can protect your privacy best by only releasing information that is needed and only to those who have reason to know the information.

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Get Your Ex Back - 5 Surefire Ways that May Help

Sometimes a bad breakup can be made a little simpler by having a person or two on your side. They can help you finalize a plan that may help you get your ex back. It's not impossible to get your ex back by following 5 invaluable bits of information: continue to live life, no substance abuse, no contact with ex, ignore initial impulses and moving on.

Invaluable Information Number (1) - Continue to Live Life

Despite all the hardships that you are facing currently in your life, life does go on. If you focus on the negative points, life will go on without you and you will miss it all. If you let all those negative feelings fester, you won't have the strength to face the day. Don't let this happen to you. Find the courage to move forward no matter how much heartache you are feeling. This doesn't mean don't feel it at all because it makes you human. The goal is to keep going without letting it hold you back from moving forward.

Invaluable Information Number (2) - No Substance Abuse

Many people who have no support system turn to all kinds of things. There are many things that cannot harm them such as turning to food or surfing too long on the Internet. However, there are other items they can use that can cause them so much in the short and long run. These are typically illegal (legal drugs will not taken correctly) and alcohol. If you are depressed, these will magnify those feelings. Not to say you can't drink every now and then but do it in moderation. If you want to deal with life positively, steer clear of these and those. Find an outlet that is worthwhile and healthy.

Invaluable Information Number (3) - No Contact with Ex

You may think that leaving your ex to be on his or her own for some time will keep them from coming back. However, you need to remember the phrase, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." By giving them the space they initially wanted, it gives you the time to ponder on what caused the relationship to fail. This time can also be used to think out a plan that can help you and your ex make the relationship work should you want to get back together with them. What does it mean by no contact? It means no e-mail, phone calling, text messaging or visiting. Not a single thing.

Invaluable Information Number (4) - Ignore Initial Impulses

Never let your heart override your head in situations such as breakups. Breaking up and making up can be difficult without some sort of plan before you get back together with someone. Remember that having a plan before you fight to get your ex back is best.

Invaluable Information Number (5) - Moving Forward

Despite having a plan or even no plan, there is still chance your relationship will fail. Sometimes relationships just aren't meant to be. You should always be aware of this possibility and accept it should it happen.

It's not impossible to get your ex back but it can be heartbreaking. Yet, if you take the time and prepare a plan, you can get your ex back. However, it's as long as you are willing to do these 5 things. Just remember that the most important thing is to keep out of contact for at least a month and develop a plan to win him/her back.

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4 Mistakes to Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

When people go through a breakup, there are 4 classic mistakes they make that can ruin their chances of wanting to get their ex back. It's important to know these 4 issues so you can avoid making these common blunders especially if you are looking to getting back together with your ex. Remember that these classic mistakes can cost you possibly a good relationship.

Mistake Number (1) - No Contact

You stay together although you are broke up. If you break up with someone, no matter if you are the one who chose to end the relationship or not, you need to live your ex alone. Many people believe that staying near their ex is the way to win their heart back. It's actually the worst thing you can do. Give him or her space that both of you need for a little time to miss you. There is no way to bring them back instantly so you need to be patient. Don't you think it is worth to give both of you a time to sort things out? Doing so means you can focus on making a better you and he/she can focus on making themselves better. Another reason you should take a break is to form a plan of action.

Mistake Number (2) - No Drugs, No Alcohol

Do not turn to drugs or alcohol during this time period. It is never the best way to deal with a breakup and can lead you to do even more stupid things such as calling him or her up in the middle of the night, crying for them to come back. This is called drunk dialing. If you have done this, you may already know why you shouldn't drink when you are most emotional.

Mistake Number (3) - No Desperate Action

You probably wonder if your ex thinks of you constantly. Chances are if you are giving them space but you don't want to keep calling him or her on a regular basis. All it does is make you look like a psycho and is likely to make your ex glad he or she dumped you. If you are trying to act depressed and making your ex feel guilty about leaving you so he or she will come back is another bad strategy. If you want the chance of getting back together with your ex, then remember not to act desperate or it is likely to repel getting them back.

Mistake Number (4) - Pursuing Your Ex without a Plan

Make sure to have some sort of plan in place before you and your ex try the relationship a second time around. Have more than one plan and give them some serious thought before you choose a strategy to go with. Go into the relationship without one is sure to doom the relationship in the long run. If you want your ex back, then be sure to have a plan and not follow your impulse.

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If You Want Your Ex Back - Here's 3 Useful Tips

For many people, the most difficult time to know what to do about your life arise the moments after a breakup has occurred. The only thing you know is that you want your ex back beside you. However, you are unsure of how to do this very thing. Actually, following 3 simple steps can help you achieve this goal.

These 3 steps are: Cut off contact, solve your own problems and be with people who care about you.

Getting It Together Tip Number (1) - Cut Off Contact

Do not contact your ex for about a month. Yes, this actually works for a variety of reasons. First, you can limit the harm already done by damaging words when both of your tempers and emotions are running quite high. Second, you and your ex will have time to work on yourselves.

You should understand that going back too soon can bring any number of issues up and lead to further estrangement. You want to give yourself a month to formulate a plan so you don't lose him or her forever. Never wing this issue if you really want to bring him or her back to you.

Getting It Together Tip Number (2) - Solve Your Own Problems

Remember that Hollywood movies are a work of fiction. No one but yourself can solve your problems. This means you will have to solve these problems on your own and in your own time. You will have to get your life back on track by yourself. Yes, you can feel the pain that occurs from the breakup but don't let it rule your life. Get back on your feet and move forward with life.

You should also not rely on your ex to help you in the rebuilding you process. A well formulated plan to win him back should also not have his or her input. If you want to get them back, you need to be the one that keeps the plan moving forward.

Getting It Together Tip Number (3) - Be With People Who Care About You

After a breakup, do the things and spend time with the people you haven't spent near as much time with during your relationship. Having those who love you and care about you can make you feel so much better. These people can help bring your self-esteem and confidence back up. They also will help to alleviate the pain you are feeling, making the road to recovery a little easier.

The worst thing a needy person can do is to take a person's kindness too far. They are people, not things. While they are there for you, don't burden them too heavily with your problems. They do have their own problems to deal with. Though they can give you good advice, be sure to assume responsibility for your own predicaments.

By following these 3 tips, you can have your ex back beside you in no time. However, be sure it is really what you want. Be prepared with some sort of plan. Doing so, you are already ahead of the game.

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If You Want Your Ex Back - Suggestion You Should Do Now

If you have been dumped, you probably think that the only way to get your ex back would be to see them and talk with them constantly. This is, in fact, counter productive. If you stop talking with them for a specific amount of time (3-4 weeks will do) then you'll see that there are several benefits to waiting.

If you and your ex are fighters, it is best to spend some time apart so both of you can cool your heads. This is especially true for couples who just broke up. If you feel like you both can have a go at the relationship after some time apart, then it is best not to see each other for about a month. Seeing each other causes more conflict and honestly, the time apart is rather good for all involved.

After the peaceful month has passed, both of you should be less unreceptive. You can settle all those issues that drove you apart with an open mind and open heart, thus starting the healing process. If you want to get your ex back with confidence, it is necessary to give yourselves this break.

No matter the type of breakup you have, whether it is constantly fighting with each other or having a mutual time away, it is a way to rekindle the flames and fire in your relationship. If you are constantly seeing each other, it's like you never broke up and both of you won't have the time to miss one another.

Remember these two old expressions, "You don't appreciate what you have until it's gone" and "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". How can you be appreciated if you never actually leave. He or she won't have the opportunity to know what he or she is missing if you are always together. If the breakup was under a mutual understanding, there is always a chance for another shot. Yet, he or she will never see it...so spend some quality time apart.

When it seems everything is falling apart around you, it can be hard to make any sort of correct decisions. Don't react to your circumstances. Instead react with a plan to those circumstances. Hence this reason for the time apart, you can develop some sort of plan to get your ex back.

Without a plan, people act in all kinds of ways. You may lack the right words, turning off your ex. You may come off as needy thus sending your ex running from your attempts to get back together. So, embrace this month long hiatus to develop a plan that has actually worked. Don't do what you think works, do what does work.

If you really are serious about getting back together with your ex, then you should take the advice you get just as seriously. Sometimes it's difficult from staying away from the one you love but if you want your ex back, you really need to do give yourself and your ex a break.

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Dating As A Single Parent: Online Dating Safety

Dating as a single parent can be a little more complicated and tricky than in your previous life when you were footloose and fancy free. Now it isn't just a matter of slapping on your party clothes and heading out for the night. Now there are babysitters, children's schedules, sleepovers, and visitations for the other parent to all be considered. No wonder some single parents despair and almost give up looking for romance before they even begin. It is hardly surprising that online dating for single parents is becoming increasingly popular.

However, just as with dating in the real world, there are very real safety issues that you should consider before embarking on a cyberspace romance with your new soul mate. You may well be a responsible parent, but that does not make you immune to internet dangers. Follow these sensible precautions to ensure you find yourself an online romance and not a cyber stalker:

* Phone numbers. There is a very good reason why dating sites recommend not giving out your phone number too soon. Depending on where you live, vast amounts of information can be obtained from your phone number. If the friendship goes belly up do you really want to have to change your numbers because you are being annoyed by some deranged stalker? Do you want them annoying you at work? Would you give your number to a stranger in a bar? At least you have actually seen first hand the stranger in the bar.

* Financial situation. If you are wealthy, lucky you. Don't go advertising it while online dating though. Just like the real world there are also plenty of other single parents who would like to hook up with some extra cash. Be careful what you divulge. Careless details about expensive vacations and similar may well be giving away too many clues initially. Do you want to be liked for you or for your cash? There are plenty of unscrupulous individuals masquerading as singles who are looking to prey on singles with money.

* Personal details. If you don't want to have to relocate, giving out your street address or work details too soon can backfire. If you live in a small town be wary of inadvertently mentioning you work for the baker or live in the lilac shingled house. It won't be too hard for the other person to suss you out if they wanted to.

* Protect your children. Sadly, there are some pedophiles out there pretending to be single dads and moms to prey on your children. The fact that you are a single parent is enough information to start with. Be a little gender and age non specific when mentioning your children. You should become a little suspicious if there is more interest in your kids than you and it doesn't matter how many children you have. Do not provide any photos of your children.

* First date safety. Just like your mother told you when you first started dating "Don't be getting in any cars with strangers." Just because you may see yourself as a parent first and foremost does not make you immune to dangerous strangers. When meeting up with new dates, do so in well lit public and busy places. Lunches can be good. Make sure someone close to you knows where you are going and who you'll be with. Be sure to have a contingency plan in case your date turns out to resemble the motel owner from "Psycho". Trust your instincts. If they creep you out, move on politely and quickly.

* Read the fine print. As with anything else you purchase over the Net, it is always a sensible idea to read the small print. Are there monthly fees? What do you actually get for your money? Will it cost you more to contact those you fancy? Is the dating site reputable? Using a credit card with legitimate sites is no more dangerous than using it in a retail store. There is information stating that today, it's safer? Do your homework before handing over the plastic.

Meeting a new partner can be effectively achieved through online dating. However, you should be mindful to keep you and your children safe by following basic online dating safety.

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