Are you an Anxious dater?

A man struggling in the dating setting is not an unusual occurrence now days and it takes a knowledgeable person in order to get out of the old ways of dating and into the new quickly. In case you want to do it the other way and trial for yourself. This I would actually advise however it is important to know some key points first to save time and displeasure. You have to realise that either what you are doing is not working so you need to change it OR you are in the wrong environment. Now this is an important subject because you need to way up if changing how you act and essentially who you are is an option you are willing to take. Some are some aren’t. Or you could change the environment that you surround yourself in!!! Now this topic actually hasn’t been commented on all that much but it is actually the easiest to implement. It is also better for you in the ling run because instead of trying to follow a set list of guidelines which often feel uncomfortable and just not you. You can continue being yourself (which you do very well!!!) and find the place in life just for you.

What I mean is... you probably feel uneasy and uncomfortable in social situations and don’t quite know how to take action right? The main reason you feel so uneasy is a mix of how much you have been subjected to such a situation but also how the situation relates to you.

-You have most probably fallen in with the wrong crowd?

-or the group of acquaintances which you are currently with aren’t actually as nice as you think they are?

An immediate and successful way to quickly get rid of such feelings of anxiety and awkwardness is to simply change the group or circumstances that you are continually finding yourself in. This relates to the example of many men finding the dating scene so daunting is that it is just not a natural environment for them. Or the club or bar in town making you nervous with all those women and confident men around?

There are many other places to meet women which are not so superficial. It may go as far as changing your occupation or your friends but it does not have to be as extreme as this. The main thing is to find an area of interest and look for places which you feel comfortable and knowledgeable in. What do you do in your spare time? These are the places that you will feel most comfortable in and also able to find a perfect date in a natural environment. Also one of the major advantages of this is that there is a very good chance that she will have common interests.

One of the problems that the pros have is that they go where there is lots of game like clubs and bars but there is little chance of finding someone that is of common direction or interest hence they waste a lot of time on finding the right one. If you have little experience in this field it would be a hopeless task.

This is key, as it is the first step to changing your attitude of how you look at women.

Good luck with all your dating endeavours from the PullingLadies Dating team. Visit Us again soon.

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