Frankly, I am sick and tired of seeing so many people heart broken and hopeless over getting their ex to speak or call them again.
So, I am going to reveal an unconventional, no B.S. tip that, when used correctly, will work like casting a magic spell to get your ex to call, IM or text you again.
However....
DON’T SAY THIS!
Before we proceed, I like to tell what not to do before revealing what to do!
The two types of calls to avoid making like the plague are:
• The Desperate Beg - Admit it, you know this one. It’s where the message sounds like: “Candy, baby, please, please, please, call me back. I love you!” - and -
• The Emergency - The message for this one sounds like: “Joe, this is an emergency! You need to call me as soon as you get this!
Not so hard to imagine why these types of calls never work is it?
Okay, so without further ado....
USING CURIOSITY & SELF-INTEREST AS SECRET WEAPONS!
Two of the most influential traits of the human psyche are:
• Curiosity &
• Self-Interest
Now the BIG SECRET:
When you combine the two, the effect is magical!
For example.......
Examine how a call using these two principles works almost Every Time.
In a friendly tone say:
“Hi Christine, it’s Ted. I wanted to let you know how grateful I am for what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Notice how BOTH curiosity and self-interest are used in this message?
Christine won’t be able to resist! In her mind, she will be trying to figure out, “What did I do?” “What is he grateful for?” More importantly, this type of message has a positive tone that will make Christine feel good about herself. How’s that for a double-whammy!
Listen....
I hate to state the obvious, but make you figure out what he/she did that you are grateful for. It can be any small thing, just so long as it is believable.
But more importantly,
ALERT!!!
You must have a strategy in place, such as what is laid out in the Magic of Making Up system, before you make that call!
Why? What you do before and after you get your ex to call you back is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Sounds logical?
Good, then have a plan!
Wishing you much success,
Terez Williamson
Terez Williamson is a 38 year old romantic whose mission is to bring people practical, empowering information that can be used to enrich their relationships and their lives. To access a free video tip, click here: Magic of Making Up
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