Get your ex back - 6 tips to consider

So you have had that conversation where you hear that you are now “officially” broken up. Now what do you do? You might feel tempted to win her back by “wearing down her resistance”. You think that if you call her a hundred times or text her a thousand messages that she will HAVE to get back with you… Occasionally, this MIGHT work, but generally, this could put an end to whatever hope you had to get back together. Take this approach and you would be hit by lightning sooner than winning her heart again. Here are 6 things to do (or AVOID DOING AT ALL COSTS) to win back your love.

1. Do not panic. If you get all crazy and possessive, you won’t get her back. Don’t throw a fit, beg or grovel at their feet. This just reinforces their belief that you are not able to give them room or any chance to breathe. You come across as painfully needy. Give them some space and you increase your chance to get them back.

2. Avoid making demands of your ex. This is absolutely the wrong time to issue orders and insist on doing things your way. This could slam the door on any reunion possibilities.

3. Only apologize for those things you really did. If you apologize for everything that went wrong for the entire relationship, you may be overdoing it. It will not usually help patch things up.

4. Even if it takes all of your strength, agree with them that you should split up, (assuming that you didn’t initiate the breakup) even if it feels so wrong to do so, because it works. You both need the time to cool off the volatile emotions that have probably surfaced. This shows your ex that you know that things were not perfect, and you realize that there is a need to work through things out.

5. Do not try to make your ex feel bad or jealous. You will only end up angering and alienating them, and your chances of resolution become much harder.

6. Even though you are taking a break in the relationship, you may have to deal with them in everyday life. Don’t be rude or completely ignore your ex. Strive to be as pleasant as you would to an acquaintance, but go about your business or walk away.

Experiencing a breakup is something that we would do anything to avoid. You can hope for reunion if you remain strong, make a plan and stick to it.

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