Get Your Ex Back With These 3 Sure Fire Tips

For you to be reading this article right now, means you have just gone through a break up and you are probably desperate trying to find a solution to get your ex back into your life. I know how horrible a situation like this can be, I have been there many times myself while I have been dating a few years ago. I would have been glad if I knew this technique I am going to tell you about a few years ago, it would have help me get back with my boyfriend much faster rather than having to go through really bad days. Before you can get your ex back you need to have a plan, to know exactly what to do at the right time and this article will provide you with what you need. The three sure fire tips that will get your ex back to you; you will not even have time to sigh.

The biggest mistake that many people make after a break up is calling their ex and begging them to take them back into their life, you will need to resist yourself from doing this to avoid making things worse for yourself. Trust me on this, it will work and doing this has never worked for anyone. Bear in mind that your ex does not want someone who is needy and begging, doing this will just show this side of you. So, take my advice and do not beg, nothing positive will come out of it.

On the other hand, you need to try to calm down so that you can face things with a cool mind. You need to give your ex the impression that your life will go on even if it is without them. It is funny how people react at times; when they see that you do not need them it is at this very moment that they will want you more. That is a natural human behavior; we always want what we cannot have. To keep the game going, go out with friends, go shopping. Do all those things that you enjoy doing, your ex will see that your are living your life without them.

After some time, around a week or so you can call your ex. Best is to call and not send an email neither a postcard. Just call them up and talk to them. What you will talk about is simple; you do not to go in details about your break up right now. Just ask them how they have been doing and it will not matter much if they were unfriendly. You need to understand them too; you are both talking to each other after some time. Then ask if they would like to meet up with you, do not go for something big. Whether over a cup of coffee or for lunch, you decide what is more convenient for you.

During your meeting is where you will tell your ex that you have been thinking about the situation and have realized your mistakes and that you would like to get back with them and starting everything over, you got it right, you are taking all the blame. Do not try to rush things from here, give your ex time to think over it too then ask them to meet again and most probably your ex will agree, if not you have to keep trying until they say yes.

Ruby Mora has been as a relationship advisor to her friends for a long time. Mostly dealing with delicate situations like a break ups where the partners wanted to get their ex back. She recommends reading The Magic Of Making Up, an e-book that has already helped thousands of couples to get back together.