It's safe to say that many of us have been in this situation with a partner of the opposite or same sex. Maybe you really didn't care about him/her, and you take this break-up with a sign of relief. If this describes you, stop reading NOW.
But, what if you truly DID have feelings for them? Perhaps you two broke up over a small misunderstanding, even something as small as your parents (for the teens reading this).
Well, I have some good news and some bad news. The bad news is that you're ex really might have meant that it is over, and won't be forgiving enough to take you back, no matter what.
As for the rest of us, though, what if you felt as if you're ex was the best part of your life? Where every moment you spent together felt like an eternity? And you did something wrong, maybe not in your eyes, but enough in your ex's to make them break-up with you.
If you feel like you want your old flame back in your life, read the tips below, and maybe you can achieve just that:
1) Let the so called "dust" settle.
"Crap", you think to yourself. You know you did something wrong, and you can practically hear those dreadful words in your head, (WE'RE THROUGH). "Calm down", you say to yourself. Maybe they'll forget about it, or they don't care.
Suddenly, the phone rings, and you snap back into reality as you see their number on the caller id. You pick up the phone and (depending on the degree of what you did) listen to them tell you that its over.
Now, to try and apologize at this point would have no effect at all. Your ex is either too sad or too mad to listen to any reasoning, at least right now, so just let the "dust" settle.
2) If she's still single after a while, apologize!
It's at this point that many will either fail or be on the road to winning. Let's say that its been a month. Your ex has taken a couple weeks to get over what happened, and is now ready to start dating again.
Now is the make or break stage. If your ex is taken by someone else, you can forget trying, unless your persistant enough to wait for them to be single again. IF they're is single again.
But what if they're single? No one is interested in them (besides you, of course), so this would be the best time to take action, or apologize. Tell them that you were wrong, and that they have been the only thing on your mind for the past month ( or however long it takes to get to this stage). If they give you the ever so glorius "second chance", go to step 3
3) Speak in actions, not in words.
This is the stage where, to get in a relationship with your ex, YOU CANNOT SCREW UP! I cannot stress this enough! Obviously, you must be in love with this person enough to go through this much trouble to win 'em back, and the last thing you want to do is lose them AGAIN.
Don't let history repeat itself. Make sure to make them as happy as you can, but don't forget about yourself, either :)
4) If you get turned down, its not the end of the world.
So, lets assume you do all this, and they still turn you down. End of the world? Not yet, buddy. If your ex was unwilling to take you back, just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea, and it probally isn't worth it to try to win over the heart of somone who gave you the cold shoulder, anyway.
Well, those are my very simplistic tips for trying to win back your old flame. Good luck, and thank you for reading!
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