Ok guys; listen up! Pay attention and you will learn how to win back your girlfriend.
For Men's Eyes Only!
What do you think is the DUMBEST thing you can do if you are attempting to win back your ex-girlfriend or your ex-wife?
Think about this question for a while and then keep reading to discover the answer.
This "thing" will be the ultimate death of your relationship.
Hint--"It is an emotion or condition that you shouldn't ever reveal to any woman that you might want to bring into you life. (After you are married then you could show some of these emotions, NOT before.)
If you bury this emotion you will discover that you are now more appealing to women in general and more attractive to your ex.
Have you discovered the answer yet?
Here's another hint-women will try their best to get their men to wear their "hearts on their sleeve"...
Don't do...don't show it! In fact...it is better to NOT even feel it!
The answer is...you don't ever want to show your NEEDINESS!
Don't tell her that you are lonely. Don't tell her that you are feeling depressed. Don't tell her that you really miss her. Don't be calling her 6-10 times a day.
Doing any of these things is a BIG MISTAKE!
If you are doing any of these things it means that you are either slowly or quickly killing any chance of winning her heart back.
"So I am supposed to play hard to get?"
No not at all.
"Okay, what should I be doing?" "Being without her is killing me."
Patience, patience...
Take a deep breath and forge ahead.
You want to be able to ATTRACT her back. You will need to work on being as attractive to her as you can be.
How? I'm not talking about physical attractiveness. I'm talking about the following qualities.
Here are just a FEW of the strong character traits you need to develop.
* Honor
* Integrity
* Passion for life
* Goal oriented
* Confidence
* Humility
* Calmness under pressure
* Generosity to friends, family and even strangers
* Leadership
* Courage and conviction
* Decisiveness
* Humor
I've just given you numerous traits that you should work on. It sounds like a lot of work, but if you want to become more attractive to women, then you MUST do your best to work on all these areas of your life.
I'll expound on a few:
1. Self confident and calmness under pressure
Do these 2 and you show her that you are a man who is going to be successful with his life...no matter what happens!
2. Passion for life
Show her that you are HAPPY! By being happy you are showing her that you have a future.
"How does being happy show her anything", you ask. Pick your answer to this question. Which is more attractive?
1. A depressed, whiney schlep who can't stop bringing up the past and how hurt he is...OR
2. A "happy go lucky" kind of guy that seems like he is "movin on" and going to change himself for the better.
Of course he still desires her...but is not NEEDY...
Does any of this make sense?
Can you see how you will be more victorious in attracting your ex back if you are not needy?
You are probably thinking, "Where do I start and how do I NOT appear needy?"
Reasonable questions and I'm not making light of your situation.
There is a solution.
You will learn some very important methods on how you can win back your girlfriend.
Such as:
1. When should I first contact her? 2. What should I be doing in the meantime? 3. Should I be dating other women? 4. How do I get rid of the "needy" feelings? 5. What is the BEST way to make that first contact? 6. What you absolutely do NOT want to talk about on your "first date" 7. There is still hope if you broke some or all of the "don't be needy rules."
It isn't easy to win back the love of your life, but it can be done. You have to be both determined and consistent if you are to be successful. By using the basic strategies listed above you will be well on your way to getting her back. You need to do everything in your power to get your Ex back. For more resources, please visit Lost Luv Back
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